She said "Call Me"! What should I do? (women, kid)
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So for the last month and a half I've seen this women around. She caught my eye and I may have caught hers. Well we've never said anything to each other during that timeframe bc she is always busy with her clients and I'm busy trying to get my tasks done. Just a simple smile and wave. So a couple of days ago she came over to me and introduced herself. We chatted for about 2 mins as she had to finish with her client and I had to finish my stuff.
Two days ago I saw her and since she had just finished with a client I decided to go up to her and talk. So we chatted for about 5 mins and at the end of the convo she gives me her business card and that's when she said "Call me".
She's between 38 & 42 and I'm 35. Even though I'm 35 I'm not really one to talk on the phone. I mainly text bc it's easier. The only time I talk on the phone is when I talk to my mother or my sister when we're trying to make plans.
However, I don't know if I should call this woman bc I don't know what I would talk about. I'm better in person but as I said before it's really hard to get in those convos when we see each other.
Ladies, what would expect a guy to do in this situation? If he didn't call would you think that he isn't interested?
The hardest part to know is when. Everything else is a no brainer. If you like this person why not talk to her more?
However, you have said she has clients and she gave you her business card and told you to call her. She didn't say, "Call me sometime", or, "Will you call me later?" These are more down to Earth than, "Call me", which seems like she's trying to get you into her business more so than just talk to you via a friendship.
However, I don't know if I should call this woman bc I don't know what I would talk about. I'm better in person
"Hello, is this business woman? This is he's so hott, how are you? Good! I wanted to know if you wanted to grab a drink or have dinner sometime. Great, how about _______ after work?"
You can say lunch but she seems busy from what you wrote and might be easily distracted, rushed or cancel on you.
If she's a classy business woman, I'd choose an appropriate place with a full bar and not be cheap. No chili's or olive garden.
Is this a coworker? Many would tell you to not pursue her in an obvious fashion if she is. Of course, if you like her, you should call her. That is the obvious part. As the above poster mentioned, just use it as an opportunity to speak in private and ask her out.
If she gave you her business card, she is DEFINITELY interested. Know that, and tell yourself that because it will make things much easier on you. You don't have to impress her much, you just need to not ruin what you have already established. The ball is in your court my friend.
Are you interested? If so, grow some balls and call her. If you're not interested, don't.
No idea why this needs a thread. Perhaps I can hop over to the parenting forum and read a thread that says, "my kid said, "I'm hungry", what should I do?".
This. She's no doubt just messing with your head and really doesn't want you to call her or is even interested in you. I don't know how much more obvious this woman can be. After all the only things she's done is told you call her, talked to you, been friendly and nice and given you a means to get hold of her.
I've asked this before, but is this relationship stuff really this hard for your generation?
So for the last month and a half I've seen this women around. She caught my eye and I may have caught hers. Well we've never said anything to each other during that timeframe bc she is always busy with her clients and I'm busy trying to get my tasks done. Just a simple smile and wave. So a couple of days ago she came over to me and introduced herself. We chatted for about 2 mins as she had to finish with her client and I had to finish my stuff.
Two days ago I saw her and since she had just finished with a client I decided to go up to her and talk. So we chatted for about 5 mins and at the end of the convo she gives me her business card and that's when she said "Call me".
She's between 38 & 42 and I'm 35. Even though I'm 35 I'm not really one to talk on the phone. I mainly text bc it's easier. The only time I talk on the phone is when I talk to my mother or my sister when we're trying to make plans.
However, I don't know if I should call this woman bc I don't know what I would talk about. I'm better in person but as I said before it's really hard to get in those convos when we see each other.
Ladies, what would expect a guy to do in this situation? If he didn't call would you think that he isn't interested?
Call her. Do not text her. Invite her to have coffee/a drink. Then meet her as arranged. Seriously, where's the mystery?
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Call her. Do not text her. Invite her to have coffee/a drink. Then meet her as arranged. Seriously, where's the mystery?
