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Old 06-28-2012, 05:12 PM
 
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Those are not 100% though. Worth the risk especially on a ONS?
Why did you choose to question her out of all the other people (ie men) on this thread?

Should they not be worried?

 
Old 06-28-2012, 05:17 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Why did you choose to question her out of all the other people (ie men) on this thread?

Should they not be worried?
Funny you should mention that... I edited my reply to delete the part where I questioned that myself. I wanted to see where he was going with his line of questioning.
 
Old 06-28-2012, 05:46 PM
 
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Why did you choose to question her out of all the other people (ie men) on this thread?

Should they not be worried?
You took the words right out of my mouth.
 
Old 06-28-2012, 06:18 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Ain't tellin' you all!
 
Old 06-28-2012, 06:24 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Shortly after I graduated college (about age 22), I headed down to Atlantic City for the night with a few friends and ended up meeting a 45 year old married mother of three at the Caesars Place bar. We drank heavily for about 2 hours before she invited me up to her room where we had unprotected sex for about 2-3 hours (she let me do everything...and I mean EVERYTHING) before I went back to the bar at like 3am and joined my friends again.

I don't think I ever got her name, but I do remember that she was from Queens, NY and was in town for a "girls weekend." I've always wondered if any of her friends found out about what went down and I'm sure her husband would kill her if he ever found out.
I received unprotected oral from a ONS (used condom for the full deed) and all I could think about was "Oh ****, I might have an STD!" for the next couple of days. Every little itch or discomfort down there would raise my heckles up. Up until then, I never did anything like that before in my life. Fortunately I never got anything; I met her off of the internet, lol. I only saw her one time after that but there was no sex. She was from "the wrong side of the tracks" which led to my paranoid thinking. Doing the full deed with no protection takes balls, I could never do it with a woman I just met. I'm way too scared of catching something.

To those that haven't had a ONS, you aren't missing out on much. The risks aren't worth it. And if I had a wife, I would never let her go to a place like AC alone - lots of married women go there to troll for c***. Her poor sap hubby will never find out.
 
Old 06-28-2012, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Australia
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What about STD and Pregnancy issues?
IF you want to live your life avoiding sex because your worried about STD's then good for you,but I enjoy sex with strangers, it turns me on (BTW i use protection)


Anyway lets not let this thread get hijacked by jealous nerds who cant get any so they justify not getting any by preaching the dangers of STD's. Keep up with the one night stand stories they are gold
 
Old 06-28-2012, 07:16 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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IF you want to live your life avoiding sex because your worried about STD's then good for you.


but I enjoy sex with strangers, it turns me on
It turns me on too but it doesn't make the risks any less real. Do you think any of these women are going to send you a sympathy card in the mail once you get an STD? They will have long forgotten you.

No, you're going to be all alone with your head in your hands, thinking to yourself, "damn, I was a reckless idiot."
 
Old 06-28-2012, 07:56 PM
 
Location: North NJ by way of Brooklyn, NY
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Why did you choose to question her out of all the other people (ie men) on this thread?

Should they not be worried?
I'm not a guy and I wasn't questioned......
 
Old 06-28-2012, 08:24 PM
 
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Its not like I do it regularly... It was a one time thing. Am I lucky everything turned out on? Sure. Would I do it again? Probably not, but I don't regret it.

My best friend got an std from her cheating husband. Everything is risky.
Right, but that one time can cause pregnancy and std.
 
Old 06-28-2012, 08:25 PM
 
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people don't care, I guess, because "life is all about risks" haven't you heard? LOL.
Those are the single moms struggling.
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