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Originally Posted by TheHurricaneKid
Hmm, wonder whats the stipend for that...
Now that I think about it, I've never been good with body language. Unless someone appears to physically harm me, I have no clue what their body language is saying. Being hearing impaired, I dedicate my efforts to try to understand what the person is literally saying.
Perhaps one of you people could take me under their wing and teach me the body language. I'm a quick learner, I know Russian, English, and German.
I'm afraid I'm no expert myself. I've read a couple of books, but I have to train myself to even pay attention (consciously) to body language. Usually when I'm talking to a girl I'm too nervous to notice those things too much.
I agree even though this is not what most people want to hear.
I.E. I will use my girlfriend because she has stated this soooo many times.
She is a 5' average body/cutie pie but for some reason the majority of men that like her are either hispanic or older men that are on the heavy side, every once in awhile a white guy with a nice bod, cute face and around our age will contact her and she will be in heaven but it never works.
So too often I have heard " Ugg, am I total troll? White guys that I think are hot never hit me up!" "Nobody likes me, I feel so lonely."
I will remind her of the nice guys that were average that were white that have asked her out and she will find some fault with them and I have told her " Guys ask you out just not the ones you wish would hit you up, thats different from stating you are a troll, fat and ugly." and noone likes you"
But more relevantly, I don't know, just pay attention to them. They let you know if they like you. Usually they'll say something along the lines of "I like you." They know men can be dense.
The majority of women will never be the first to tell a guy they like him. They'll beat around the bush and send "signals" but most will never be upfront. I think that is the flaw in your post. Women aren't upfront in this situation bc they don't have to be.
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Originally Posted by dub dub II
But yet, they need us.
Um, many women will tell you that they don't need us so I wouldn't be so quick to believe they need us.
I think that her friend wants a White guy but he has to be hot. Her friend has a average face and a average body but she doesn't want an average white guy. We've all seen plenty of people like this, especially women bc of the spot they have between their legs. It goes back to the original post.
I was suggesting that perhaps he shouldn't be attracted to girls in the ways that he seems to be.
I don't know how this is though, but I suspect it's physical.
If it were mental, then I'd assume that one of the first things that would lead to attraction is the girl being attracted to you.
It is physical, the person is physically attracted to her and she doesn't reciprocate
I think that her friend wants a White guy but he has to be hot. Her friend has a average face and a average body but she doesn't want an average white guy. We've all seen plenty of people like this, especially women bc of the spot they have between their legs. It goes back to the original post.
Exactly, and a lot of people who say what I said in the OP are AVERAGE people who's options are other AVERAGE people. Its not 10's having only 4's or 5's interested in them.
I think that her friend wants a White guy but he has to be hot. Her friend has a average face and a average body but she doesn't want an average white guy. We've all seen plenty of people like this, especially women bc of the spot they have between their legs. It goes back to the original post.
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