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This is exactly it. The guys that come up and say lewd, disgusting things are NEVER going to be considered viable dating prospects. Ever. I don't count those as men approaching because 9 times out of 10 when I say no thank you, they immediately go to the next woman and try the same thing. These guys are just looking for a place to put their penis and nothing more.
Maybe some men consider that an 'option', but as a woman I consider it harassment.
Absolutely 100% agree here. The problem here, in my humble opinion, is what both sexes call an "option". Men think that as long as someone wants to have sex with you, that's an option. NO! ANYONE can get sex some kinda way, even if they have to pay for it. Even if you are butt ugly..because that is just SEX.
For me, when I hear people speak of options, I am thinking they mean DATING options. See, men think sooo much in terms of sex. I dont even put that in the same catergory, because when I speak about options, I am thinking of someone I can date long term, or perhaps marry. I dont mean going into some sleezy bar where two losers who would never speak to each other any other time can get high and drunk and screw each other and regret it in the morning. Any animal can do that.
so? if that's what men want, that's their buisness, most women don't want a guy walking up offering 'no strings attached sex.' Also I see no shortage of women having FWB relationships and such, they can get into one of those.
As I said time and again: if all they want is 'no strings attached sex' -- get a hooker.
There are lots of strings attached, however. There is financial outlay and legal risk involving a hooker. Hardly NSA sex.
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I like you, but you deserved to be called out. You claimed it was so low class when a guy you weren't attracted to did it, but someone you're attracted to does the EXACT SAME THING and it wasn't so low class then.
I think most consider it 'low class' for a 60 yo man to be hitting on young women 40 years his junior.
I think most consider it 'low class' for a 60 yo man to be hitting on young women 40 years his junior.
It wasn't so low class when someone else did the same thing. When you b*tch and moan about how low class it is for an old man to do it, but immediately sleep with someone you find attractive who acted no different, that is hypocritical. At that point, you're in no position to say who is low class.
I like you, but you deserved to be called out. You claimed it was so low class when a guy you weren't attracted to did it, but someone you're attracted to does the EXACT SAME THING and it wasn't so low class then.
Like I said...it WAS low class. I was drunk and alone and did something stupid. What I did was low class and disgusting, I never said it wasn't.
It wasn't so low class when someone else did the same thing. When you b*tch and moan about how low class it is for an old man to do it, but immediately sleep with someone you find attractive who acted no different, that is hypocritical. At that point, you're in no position to say who is low class.
Point, set, match. That's exactly what I posted on the previous page. You can't have it both ways.
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It wasn't so low class when someone else did the same thing. When you b*tch and moan about how low class it is for an old man to do it, but immediately sleep with someone you find attractive who acted no different, that is hypocritical. At that point, you're in no position to say who is low class.
Yes but the desirability of the aproacher isn't the ONLY factor. There's also the tone of the approach itself, how lewd the person was.etc.
Yes but the desirability of the aproacher isn't the ONLY factor. There's also the tone of the approach itself, how lewd the person was.etc.
This is exactly it. The ONLY reason he approached me was due to a bet with his friends. He admitted that he wouldn't have approached me otherwise.
I was drunk and lonely by myself in a city I wasn't familiar with. If that had happened in my home town, I would have walked away laughing. It was a combination of factors.
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