Who here has mismatched libido's with their partner? (husbands, sex, relations)
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lol...sounds like a real loser to me....lol....he doesn't happen to be Dan from the show Rosanne? Also I was thinking that he is gay. Seriously.
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Originally Posted by sister girl
I definitely have wanted sex more than any man I've ever been with. Now I have found Mr. Romance, the whole body massage, yummy slow sexy stuff....when he's in the mood. But he doesn't have as much drive as I do. Furthermore he doesn't kiss enthusiastically, actually hides his face sometimes when I try to kiss him. He also can't be hugged even sometimes. He says that he gets feeling physically too "hot" sometimes and can't stand physical contact. He also gets up at least once during the night with what seem to be anxiety episodes, and has to have a Coke and a candy bar to "calm down". I've been with non-kissers before (I LOVE to kiss!) and am tired of feeling like I am always trying to coax him into a kiss, or a touch or bed. On the other hand, when we DO do it, it's Grrrrrreat. Best ever. What to do??? Is there something physically, endocrinologically, psychologically amiss with him? I really am beginning to think he has a condition of some kind.
Half asleep residents from the retirement home do not count.....
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Originally Posted by Robhu
I'm 61 years old and I'm trying to remember the last time I had sex.
Let me think for a minute--thinking---thinking---still thinking.
IT WILL BE 3 DAYS, DAY AFTER TOMORROW.
My SO and I are evenly matched in the libido department. I do have to say, though, that every time I read about menopause shutting down one's drive, it bothers me. I will be 50 in a few months, so my time is approaching. I'm not looking forward to it and refuse to go on HRT, so I'm hoping there are alternatives.
I think it's my case .
My so has had menopause and is not interested in sr anymore (not that we had a torrid love life previously...) and I can handle it physically (with the help of Seroxat, an antidepressant) but morally it's getting harder and harder with the years...
I'm just the opposite, I hit menopause and I am more interested in sex. My parents were "active" till about 80 which always gave me hope. But my DH is just not interested. He's 66 and I am 59 and hate to think that sex is over at my age. He has told me point blank he is just not interested. The past few years is was down to once a year and I have just given up. We are just roommates which seems so sad to me. It should be a part of your life as long as your are breathing....
my wife if you can call her that has NONe. always wanted to recive never give!!! Now i can't give it to her other than oral since having a accident 6 yrs and she never misses it
Sex is a HUGE part of a relationship. Unless you can't due to a physical impairement then........it's just crazy talk
Thank God my wife likes it all the time and we've been married 15 years. We've talked about it and both agreed we'd probably stray or split if one of our sex drives stopped. We'll see.
To say one of the two of us had to quit having sex if the other one didn't want to is nutz.
I am frustrated with the lack of sex; i need it every day and my partner can go for 3 to 5 days without it , i had the same problem with my two ex, i feel cheated, is there any woman out there who want it every day? And not just during the initial honey moon period? I think most women like to come across as " ninphos" but the reality is much diffrent, any comment?
I am frustrated with the lack of sex; i need it every day and my partner can go for 3 to 5 days without it , i had the same problem with my two ex, i feel cheated, is there any woman out there who want it every day? And not just during the initial honey moon period? I think most women like to come across as " ninphos" but the reality is much diffrent, any comment?
No we do...but often guys are just concerned with getting off and don't make much effort to please us so the sex pretty much can not be enjoyable thus not wanted. Perhaps you should up the foreplay....help around the house more......changed positions....get kinky.
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But my DH is just not interested. He's 66 and I am 59 and hate to think that sex is over at my age. He has told me point blank he is just not interested. The past few years is was down to once a year and I have just given up. We are just roommates which seems so sad to me. It should be a part of your life as long as your are breathing....
Now i can't give it to her other than oral since having a accident 6 yrs and she never misses it 
