Who here has mismatched libido's with their partner?

[TaoistDude]

My ex and I were badly mismatched, and along with other problems, led to her being my ex!

This time, we're pretty evenly matched on "high", though hers may be a little higher than mine. But I'm always persuadable.

[t12345]

Originally Posted by TaoistDude

My ex and I were badly mismatched, and along with other problems, led to her being my ex!

This time, we're pretty evenly matched on "high", though hers may be a little higher than mine. But I'm always persuadable.

Consider yourself very lucky , I wish i was geting it that much that i could be in a position to tell her "not tonight love, i'm tired" but is never been the case with my girfriend or my exes, instead i'm allways ready and willing, i guess we have 30 times more testosterone than them and it sends your libydo sky high!!!

[t12345]

Originally Posted by humble guy

well in my situation I only get sex with my wife 4x a year imagine that I don't know what I need to do to get her to make love with me, i always ask first if its ok & even if it is ok i dont get the feeling she like having sex. Any input people?

I don't think anyone can give you an answer, you know your partner better than anyone else, every couple has diffrent sex dinamics, mistmatch is common, but 4 times a year......., consider your options, think how you would feel 10 years down the line.......we have only one shot in life!!!, have you exausted all the "talking with your partner options"??, dont even consider cheating, believe me i did it and you only will be living a lie, the only person you cheat is yourself!!, act soon, life is short......