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Not an uncommon situation and something that has happened to me.
Here is the scenario you are in :
You invite a girl/woman to your place. Spur of the moment thing. She accepts.
You don't know her that well. You talk for abit, maybe have a drink or two.
There is a connection and chemistry for both parties. You start making out abit.....but then you realise you are out of condoms.
Its late and a long drive to the nearest open store. She says she is on the pill.
How do you proceed?
I just keep going.
I had no plans to have sex with her in the first place. I don't have sex with random girls.
I would learn a lesson that I would never run out of condoms. They're cheap and you can buy them in bulk. Real men are like Scouts... Br Prepared and Plan ahead.
But if I thought I needed a condom, I would do everything but penetration. I'd pull out my trusty magic wand and give her the enjoyment of her life and with plenty of oral stimulation make sure she had the best non penetration sex ever and wanted to come back for more. Prolonged mutual masturbation and oral can be fun and enjoyable for all parties.
what guy keeps a vibrator? and who knows who else you used it on? eww
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BTW, keep a small personal bag in your car packed with plenty of condoms and personal packets of lube.
what good are condoms if they are stored in your car???
Forget about intercourse and get some oral....or if she is super hot...take your chances=== somethings are worth dying for...okay- forget that advice and now down to some serious advice. If you usually have a stock pile of condoms...and you ran out- It sounds like YOU have had a lot of sex with a lot of people- Maybe the woman has more too worry about when it comes to catching something from YOU....funny how males like to blame the woman...
you can catch diseases from oral too
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Despite all the good little kids claiming they would abstain, I've been in similar situations on more than one occasion and not a one was thinking with their heads, the little man was doing all the thinking for them. Every time I have had to be the one to stop them from jumping in without protection. Nor did any of them ask if I was on the pill, but they may have known by observation since these were people I'd been out with multiple times, not casual acquaintances.
what are you talking about? how would they know unless you told them??? and men never ask if a woman is on the pill. never had a guy ask me that
Not an uncommon situation and something that has happened to me.
Here is the scenario you are in :
You invite a girl/woman to your place. Spur of the moment thing. She accepts. You don't know her that well. You talk for abit, maybe have a drink or two.
There is a connection and chemistry for both parties. You start making out abit.....but then you realise you are out of condoms.
Its late and a long drive to the nearest open store. She says she is on the pill.
How do you proceed?
Hell No! You drive to the store and get some condoms, if she can't wait, then that's her problem.
Nope. Off the mark in my case. Not alot of people, when this scenario happened to me. I use them for self pleasure. Since I'm not a fan of them I use them...... so I'm more comfortable with them for when the real thing happens. Also less cleanup.
See how wrong you can be when you make assumptions.
When you use a woman...it might be that you are being used and don't know it. The real thing will NOT happen if you keep up this pattern- when real love shows up- You will not recognize it...Take it from an old guy who used woman for self pleasure..I was the worst...in my youth I had sex with over 100 woman...If I could go back in time- I would never repeat what I did...It was no different than being a self serving drug addict...If you find one reasonable partner in life- that is enough....You will prosper and thrive....In my case...having just turned 62...and noticing that my drive has decreased....I am happy with that- I no longer have the mindless distraction of mindless sex...NOW I can concentrate on more important things than getting my rocks off...Good luck...enjoy your youth...
It will not last forever and there will be regrets...live and learn.
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