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Old 09-12-2012, 10:08 AM
 
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I'm convinced C-D hired you for comic relief.




I don't know who you're trying to convince that you're "the man"...the folks on C-D or yourself?!
Im not trying to convince anyone of anything, just stating facts.

 
Old 09-12-2012, 10:09 AM
 
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Good for you, champ! That means the women here won't have to worry about you hitting on them, either. Win-win!
i hit on women here all the time, sometimes with quite positive results.
 
Old 09-12-2012, 10:59 AM
 
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my new guy is 45, never married with no kids. On the one hand I appreciate his lack of baggage, but I must admit I feel a bit wary. I know he lived with an ex for about 5 years and they broke up because she wanted to have kids and he didnt, so that is a sign of his ability to commit. But i still cant help but wonder. We will hit the 3 month mark in a couple of weeks so it is early still.

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Old 09-12-2012, 11:11 AM
 
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my new guy is 45, never married with no kids. On the one hand I appreciate his lack of baggage, but I must admit I feel a bit wary. I know he lived with an ex for about 5 years and they broke up because she wanted.to have.kids and he didnt, so that is a.sign of his ability to commit. But i still cant help but wonder. We will hit the 3 month mark in a couple of weeks so it is early still.
Since when did not wanting kids mean you can't commit?
 
Old 09-12-2012, 11:13 AM
 
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Eh. I'd assume that he has commitment issues or he just isn't ready to settle down.
 
Old 09-12-2012, 11:15 AM
 
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Am I the only women that doesn't think settling down or commitment involves marriage or kids?!?!

I cant be...
 
Old 09-12-2012, 11:15 AM
 
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Since when did not wanting kids mean you can't commit?
Re-read my post. I said that his relationship with his ex is a sign that he CAN commit. Differing opinions about having kids is a legit dealbreaker.
 
Old 09-12-2012, 11:17 AM
 
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Am I the only women that doesn't think settling down or commitment involves marriage or kids?!?!

I cant be...
You too need to re-read my post. I very clearly said that I see a sign that he can commit.

I am 42 and childless by choice.
 
Old 09-12-2012, 11:17 AM
 
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Am I the only women that doesn't think settling down or commitment involves marriage or kids?!?!

I cant be...
In the USA, the category when it comes to this subject that you and I fall in is the .0001%.
 
Old 09-12-2012, 11:26 AM
 
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In the USA, the category when it comes to this subject that you and I fall in is the .0001%.
Only because your reading comprehension is sorely lacking.
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