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Old 09-13-2012, 10:17 PM
 
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I see three solutions for you.

Find a blind guy

Accept yourself and get some self esteem.

Get some butt injections and a boob job or whatever else cosmetic stuff and then maybe you'll be like Buffy the body that you think you are up against.
Finding a blind dude is not a good option; I know one who frequents strip clubs & bars, endlessly partying while the wife is at home

The second suggestion here is the only option

 
Old 09-13-2012, 11:49 PM
 
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well, i could never be like you. I'm sorry but pointing out other attractive women to your partner is just desperate to me.

lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Old 09-14-2012, 01:24 AM
 
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I don't like it when men watch music videos and talk about how beautiful the women are. I used to get very upset when my ex would watch music videos and then tell me how sexy he found the women's bodies. It was just pure torture. My mind couldn't take it. I don't know why men do this.
It's not very gentleman-like. I have to agree.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 02:41 AM
 
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It's not very gentleman-like. I have to agree.
People have their own tolerance levels and should be respected to a certain extent. But not to the extent where a person has to change his ways.

But if you really think about it, porn is not cool. I watch it. But i wouldn't appreciate walking into my SO rubbing her self to porn. I wouldn't say anything about but it wouldn't sit well with me. So i can see where a women is coming from. But its one of those things that you can't hide from. Its always there and some can pass it off as meaningless.

Think about it, there is nothing else so tempting and visually stimulating with an after -affect yet so distant as porn is. Think about it....
 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:26 AM
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I think if a man has a SO where he is getting regular sex that he should not be looking at porn. Men always talk about their "needs". What ever happened to self control?
 
Old 09-14-2012, 05:41 AM
 
Location: My House
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People have their own tolerance levels and should be respected to a certain extent. But not to the extent where a person has to change his ways.

But if you really think about it, porn is not cool. I watch it. But i wouldn't appreciate walking into my SO rubbing her self to porn. I wouldn't say anything about but it wouldn't sit well with me. So i can see where a women is coming from. But its one of those things that you can't hide from. Its always there and some can pass it off as meaningless.

Think about it, there is nothing else so tempting and visually stimulating with an after -affect yet so distant as porn is. Think about it....
I'd argue that one-night stands can be worse than porn.
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Old 09-14-2012, 05:42 AM
 
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I think if a man has a SO where he is getting regular sex that he should not be looking at porn. Men always talk about their "needs". What ever happened to self control?
I don't think this has anything to do with it.
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Old 09-14-2012, 05:57 AM
 
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You didn't answer my question. So I'm posting it again...

And if he's perfect for you in every other way, doesn't have a collection, but watches porn occasionally (when you two cant hang out), doesn't stare or comment on any other women ever? Still you freak out and dont tolerate it?

Most men are in the grey area. Most men dont have massive collections and aren't watching it instead of having sex with their wives. Most men watch porn maybe a handful of times a month, when they are out of town or their gf's/wives are visiting family or working. Most men are decent guys, who just like a little porn every once in a while when they cant have sex with their women.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 06:31 AM
 
Location: Texas
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What is wrong with watching porn? I know all the girls that do watch also.
I. Have. No. Idea.
Op seems to think that if someone gets off to porn, that's skin off her nose.
Doesn't realize it has nothing to do with her whatsoever.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 06:34 AM
 
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I will never understand why people care so much about this. Watching porn is an intimate activity. People are allowed to keep their individuality even when they aren't single.
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