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Old 09-14-2012, 03:19 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Originally Posted by Oleg Bach View Post
Don't laugh at me Doll Eyes...my intentions are good. From the little I know of you...you have this unhappy persona.....now this will bother you - but sometimes I feel sorry for sad people- I disagree with you that some people have no value - everyone has something they are blessed with and that is valuable...I don't think you are such a hard nose...You put up a tough front- but you are not.

no. no. I wasn't laughing at you per se, more the way you say things. For some reason like Pikantari you come across as one of these 'tree hugging, love is all we need, yoga' types. LOL.....I am not 'happy' or 'sad' I just exist. It is hard to explain. My days are either 'satisfactory' or 'unsatisfactory' those are the only choices make sense to me these days, likely chronic depression related but that's another story.

Anyways as I said, I don't beleive every single person has value to other people in the world. I think people say that because it makes everyone feel like thy have a purpose and reason for being. doesn't make it true though. We will just have to agree to disagree where this is concerned.

 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:20 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I'm with Doll Eyes, I personally know a few people who are utter wastes of space.
hahaha Well that's another way of putting it, isn't it?
 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:25 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Oh Lordy...if what you say is true, then you need to report your co-worker to HR or a manager.

If your friend said this also then you need to find new friends.

You don't watch porn or look at nudie magazines but I can tell you this: There are HUNDREDS of small/flat chested women that are in that industry.

Stop blaming something or someone for how you feel about yourself.

Therapy is the only thing that is going to help you. There is nothing else of value that anyone can add that hasn't already been said.
it's too late the damage has already been done when he said that.

one day I'll get me some implants so that it will increase my confidence. i will at least have one trait that men consider the ideal.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:27 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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I'm with Doll Eyes, I personally know a few people who are utter wastes of space.
That made me laugh- you are not a waste of space if you bring some sort of humor into the world...Yes some are a waste of space- but who is the one who is going to start tossing that waste of space over the side and into the ocean? Not me- I will continue lying to the waste of space types and tell they they are NOT a waste...You might get some results with love and encouragement...but-I know a couple of people that are a waste of space..that are hopeless..but they are few....

Getting back to porn....it is artificial sex...if you start talking to the porn as you pleasure yourself- at least you know you are still functional...it does have a use....but as I mentioned with my "loser" comment- I prefer real porn...in the mean time some of us will have to made due and keep things flowing so we don't dry up and get old

I would hate to become a waste of space....it's like a plant that goes to seed and dies- I want to be that plant that is kept alive at all cost...kind of like not agreeing to the do not revive .... whey you are dying...revive me...by any means- I love life- and I have enjoyed the joy of sex all my life.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Originally Posted by Oleg Bach View Post
That made me laugh- you are not a waste of space if you bring some sort of humor into the world...Yes some are a waste of space- but who is the one who is going to start tossing that waste of space over the side and into the ocean? Not me- I will continue lying to the waste of space types and tell they they are NOT a waste...You might get some results with love and encouragement...but-I know a couple of people that are a waste of space..that are hopeless..but they are few....

Getting back to porn....it is artificial sex...if you start talking to the porn as you pleasure yourself- at least you know you are still functional...it does have a use....but as I mentioned with my "loser" comment- I prefer real porn...in the mean time some of us will have to made due and keep things flowing so we don't dry up and get old

I would hate to become a waste of space....it's like a plant that goes to seed and dies- I want to be that plant that is kept alive at all cost...kind of like not agreeing to the do not revive .... whey you are dying...revive me...by any means- I love life- and I have enjoyed the joy of sex all my life.
Sometimes I wonder what drugs you are on, other times you make perfect sense.

Either way you are a breath of fresh air and I always enjoy your posts.

You are a good man.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:37 PM
 
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its still relevant to my life. I've had a male coworker make a comment that I was flat chested. and I had a friend who said the same thing so its apparently an issue that bothers me
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Last edited by Lilac110; 09-14-2012 at 03:51 PM.. Reason: Forget it. She's hopeless and this is a waste of time.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:44 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Sometimes I wonder what drugs you are on, other times you make perfect sense.

Either way you are a breath of fresh air and I always enjoy your posts.

You are a good man.
Whatever kind of drug it is, I sure could use some right about now.


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Old 09-14-2012, 03:46 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Potty/poo analogy.

OP's as happy as a pig in poo.

We all do what "works".
 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:48 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I can't be happy and I don't think I ever will be. If I had a light complexion with a big butt & lots of male attention then I'd be happy all the time. But I can't be the way i am. I don't see the point
 
Old 09-14-2012, 03:51 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I can't be happy and I don't think I ever will be. If I had a light complexion with a big butt & lots of male attention then I'd be happy all the time. But I can't be the way i am. I don't see the point

if you could get one or two of these so called 'halfway decent' men to pay attention to you why do you feel you need 'lots of male attention?' It's not even necessary. I was never focused on getting 'all of their attention' that's not even feasible anyways.
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