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currently I am single so I can do whatever I want. However when I am in a relationship, the only guy I am concerned about is my boyfriend. I don't develop crushes over other men, and proclaim how good looking they are in front of my partner. It's really insensitive.
the vast majority of men watch porn and like to oogle at other women
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Yes, I have. It doesn't happen often but i like the male attention.
And on the other thread, You state you love male attention. Damn double standards all around. You can dish it out, but you can't take it. If a man is with you, you want to play him and make him jealous by having other men look at you.
Yes, your insecurities lie in the fact you constantly have to have your SO reassuring you you are the finest, the bestest, blah blah blah. Your immaturity will lead to many failed relationships, if you could call them that. The generation today, I met a guy today, said hello, I like him, so now we're dating? gee, no wonder there are hundreds of break ups every day. You can't have a real relationship unless you let it grow, with time and effort.
Apparently you want him to give up looking, but you don't want to give up showing.
You want to have Your Cake, and Eat it too.
Pot, meet Kettle.
I don't like it when men watch music videos and talk about how beautiful the women are. I used to get very upset when my ex would watch music videos and then tell me how sexy he found the women's bodies. It was just pure torture. My mind couldn't take it. I don't know why men do this.
Well we certainly understand your mind is a fragile thing.
You didn't answer my question. So I'm posting it again...
And if he's perfect for you in every other way, doesn't have a collection, but watches porn occasionally (when you two cant hang out), doesn't stare or comment on any other women ever? Still you freak out and dont tolerate it?
Most men are in the grey area. Most men dont have massive collections and aren't watching it instead of having sex with their wives. Most men watch porn maybe a handful of times a month, when they are out of town or their gf's/wives are visiting family or working. Most men are decent guys, who just like a little porn every once in a while when they cant have sex with their women.
I wouldn't condone it. What is the point, why does a guy need to watch porn when their s/o isn't around? he can't wait until he sees her again? a man like that is very impatient and i wouldn't trust him
Again ladies, if you don't like sex, wild sex, porn-like sex then don't get married. Marriage is not about soul mates or common conversation topics. You have friends for that. Being with somebody is about physical attraction and sex. Watch some porn, find out if this is something that you'd like to do. Good sex and not pretended orgasms and routine. On that foundation you can build everything else.
There is nothing worse for a guy to marry a frigid girl. It's simply catastrophic to a guy's ego when he has to fight for sex or just feels lack of anthusiasm from his spouse. Look at yourself ladies.
You seem to be placing all the blame on women here. It's unrealistic to expect a woman to be enthusiastic and desiring of sex all the time. Maybe she has a good reason not to be interested. Find out what it is before you assume she's frigid.
If your ex did this more than occasionally? I suspect he was a jerk.
Men look. They all look. Hell, women look. We're only human.
It's even okay to say someone looks good. But, to talk to your SO about it like you'd talk to a buddy or your best friend?
Not so nice.
On edit: I have never dated or been married to a man who went on and on about how hot another woman looked while he was in my presence. Ever. I'd ditch a man that did that.
I do not, however, care if a man watches porn or masturbates. As long as our sex life is satisfying to me, it's just not an issue. Unless a dude was addicted or had some kind of problems as a result of it? No big deal.
Well, there are men who do that which is why I don't like them watching porn or music videos with half naked women in them. If it makes me unhappy then he is a jerk if he continues to watch it
or look at naked women online? I will be single for the rest of my life then
Looking at truly beautiful naked woman is an appreciation of he wonder of the female form..that's fine...Getting fixated on watching other people ***k...is pitiful...It is like a gluttonous dog that likes to sit and watch other dogs eat...It is not natural.
You might not be "single for the rest" of your life...You will have company but not intelligent company nor a person with any real dignity or class.
I wouldn't condone it. What is the point, why does a guy need to watch porn when their s/o isn't around? he can't wait until he sees her again? a man like that is very impatient and i wouldn't trust him
So you have control issues. Even to go as far as to control his thoughts at all times. Even when you aren't together.
People who micromanage and try to control every aspect of their lives and everyone else's lives around them, are just covering for the fact that their lives are completely out of order.
Looking at truly beautiful naked woman is an appreciation of he wonder of the female form..that's fine...Getting fixated on watching other people ***k...is pitiful...It is like a gluttonous dog that likes to sit and watch other dogs eat...It is not natural.
You might not be "single for the rest" of your life...You will have company but not intelligent company nor a person with any real dignity or class.
so intelligent and classy men look at booty models and music videos with half naked women? had no idea
So you have control issues. Even to go as far as to control his thoughts at all times. Even when you aren't together.
People who micromanage and try to control every aspect of their lives and everyone else's lives around them, are just covering for the fact that their lives are completely out of order.
If I'm not looking at other half naked men, then I'd expect him to be the same and not look at half naked women. I'm being very fair. If a guy can't do that then he obviously doesn't care about me.
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