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Old 09-19-2012, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Let's not beat around the bush, you know you want to know things about the person you shall date.
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Old 09-19-2012, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Australia
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So true.

For example, this woman would probably like to know that OP was still shacked up with his wife.
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Old 09-20-2012, 06:48 AM
 
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Ok "having a conversation on POF" means by messaging right?

How on earth do you "blurt" something via pm?

My question as well. This guy has so many communication problems, it's mind-boggling.

And he wonders why he's getting a divorce.
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Old 09-20-2012, 07:09 AM
 
Location: Central North Carolina
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So what do women (she's mid 20s) mean when they say that?
Ask her! (She just told you that you can ask her anything.)

Or ask her if there is anything she WANTS you to know about her..... Good grief, she is saying what poster #1 said, "get to know me", and is also trying to say that she's not into BS'ing, if you want to know something, just ask it. (Whether or not she really means that, well that's anyone's guess....)
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Old 09-20-2012, 07:27 AM
 
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So what do women (she's mid 20s) mean when they say that?
Women are people, not exotic species. Each of us has their own mind, and our minds are as varied as our numbers. The only intelligent answer you will get to that question is the one you get from HER. You are posting the question to the wrong group.
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Old 09-20-2012, 08:16 AM
 
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I'm having a conversation with someone on POF. I'm asking her questions (what do you do, hobbies, etc) when she blurts out how I can ask her anything.

What does that mean?

I wasn't particularly thinking of asking her about her sex life as we're strangers, but...is that the green light to do so?

I ended up taking the safe road and asked about cuddling.

So what do women (she's mid 20s) mean when they say that?
It doesn't mean ask her about cuddling!

I think sex questions are fine especially if you are confident about it.

One time I was at a bar in China and I started chatting with this girl. After small talk I asked her "Do you live here or are you on vacation?" She responded with "Well I live here. That's such a boring question, can you ask me something that's not so boring?" with a b**chy look starting to appear on her face. So I looked at her straight in the eye and said "What's your favorite sex position" she took to it quite well and... I was able to confirm her answer later that night.
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Old 09-20-2012, 08:24 AM
 
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I don't understand how you would ask someone about "cuddling." I mean, what is the question?

"Do you like to cuddle?"

"Yes"

Pretty lame question, almost everyone like to hug and be hugged.

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Old 09-20-2012, 11:01 AM
 
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I don't understand how you would ask someone about "cuddling." I mean, what is the question?

"Do you like to cuddle?"

"Yes"

Pretty lame question, almost everyone like to hug and be hugged.

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Favorite cuddle position, ever cuddled with two guys (JK), etc etc.


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Old 09-20-2012, 11:28 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I don't understand how you would ask someone about "cuddling." I mean, what is the question?

"Do you like to cuddle?"

"Yes"

Pretty lame question, almost everyone like to hug and be hugged.

ZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
It is a silly question isn't it.

Imagine if one answered, "No, I despise cuddling and all forms of physical contact."

"Um...."

"So...do you like to fish?"
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Old 09-20-2012, 11:30 AM
 
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Favorite cuddle position, ever cuddled with two guys (JK), etc etc.


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If someone ever asked me that I would assume they were 5 years old. Cuddling? Really? Someone call Mister Rodgers!
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