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What I ever "wanted" was someone I could see myself sharing my life with - that I connect with - that I can trust - and that I was attracted to physically and mentally.
Her previous sexual exploits (or none at all) are entirely irrelevant to me. I am aware some men do obsess over getting a virgin but I personally can not imagine ever being one of them - nor can I think of any good reason to be.
There are virgin women out there. It is getting rarer and rarer. But they are out there.
Yes, there are. I made that decision for myself a long time ago. It is quite rare to come across a 20-something guy that I'm attracted to on all the important levels who is though; I've given up hope of that, lol.
As usual the 'magical men of the internet' are A-okay with this -- the ones IRL, different story.
Key words you said 'looking for something serious,' if that's the case no, they do not want virgins. If she is willing to give her virginity to them, no strings attached they are all for it. Now ask me how I know this.
I am a man. I would prefer a virgin for any serious relationship. Not because I'm a virgin (which I am). But because any common sense tells you that taking virgin for a serious relationship is better.
It depends on years though, but let's not fool around. Media is lying you big time and they managed to convince generations of new-born idiots (especially the ones in broken families) that number of sex partners does'nt matter.
Then they claim it's the woman's education, woman's looks, woman's this and that which a man should pay attention to. All things but just not to use common sense.
If I'd have to make a bet, I'd say that a woman in her 20s, especially mid 20s, who is a virgin, is much more suitable marriage material, given that she isn't virgin because of some "special problem" that she has, than a woman who's "experienced". Why they'll never do such study is rather because you have an ideology that promotes people to go against their common sense. But let me tell you this - I do have a certain count of folks in my head and I do look at woman's age. Having 2 sex partners before me when woman is 19-20 years old is enough to be a big no for a serious relationship. She puts up sex to anyone she dates with.
Having someone in her late 20s, such as 28 years old, who happens to have 1-2 sex partners can be given a pass. I'm not talking about women who are e.g. 38 y/o because, to tell you honestly, I'd not start serious relationships with them at all.
In fact, any woman who has 5 or more sex partners, regardless of her age, is NOT someone I'd ever bring home. No matter how pretty she is.That's not a woman any sane guy would marry.
Having 2 sex partners before me when woman is 19-20 years old is enough to be a big no for a serious relationship. She puts up sex to anyone she dates with.
Having someone in her late 20s, such as 28 years old, who happens to have 1-2 sex partners can be given a pass. I'm not talking about women who are e.g. 38 y/o because, to tell you honestly, I'd not start serious relationships with them at all.
In fact, any woman who has 5 or more sex partners, regardless of her age, is NOT someone I'd ever bring home. No matter how pretty she is.That's not a woman any sane guy would marry.
You'd significantly reduce your dating pool by following these criteria ...
It really does not matter... From my perspective, maturity and experience come hand in hand.... Along with attitude towards their sexuality. Do they accept it as an important part of their relationships? Or do they disrespect it as a tool of influence?
I find this topic a bit lopsided... many men want a virgin or a women with few partners. Yet they themselves would not fit their own criteria. It makes me wonder... is that a reflection of a deeper inner issue.
A vitgin any day. From all the diseases perspective if nothing else.
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