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Old 10-15-2012, 01:12 PM
 
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-I met girl on OKC In August

-She was pretty laid back and cool

-Said she wasn't looking for anything serious, was down for FWB

-Made out in her car that night, did not want to push more. She said Id have to "earn" my way to her place. Though on the date, she was telling me about her oral sex techniques.

-A week later, she meets a guy through her friend and they start dating

-She tells me we can still be friends blah blah

-I cut complete contact. Delete her number, remove her from FB

-2 weeks ago she texts me just saying hey whats up and stuff. And asking me why I removed her from FB (haha)

-She tells me she is still dating him, but thinking about breaking up with him.

-She says her and I can still hang out as friends

-I tell her no, Im not hanging out w her until she is single

-She texts me today saying she broke her foot

-We start talking, and she tells me she likes getting her toes sucked, and back kissed, and then starts asking me what kind of things I like

-Then she asks me, out of the blue "what makes a good BJ?" she asked me a couple of times, saying she has "always wondered if I give a good one!" I just replied with, "can't really say unless I experience it. guess youll have to wait for me to tell you." to which she said, "what makes u think youll be so lucky? etc etc I tried to play it cool and not give any concrete answers


She has a boyfriend but talks to me this way?
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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She likes the attention.

Delete her and ignore her.
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:15 PM
 
Location: NY
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Doesn't sound like mixed signals to me. She told you originally she wasn't looking for a serious relationship (likely with you) but with a FWB situation. She talks dirty with you. Yet, you are acting like you were seriously dating her, and removed contact when she had a bf.

Sounds like she is flirting with you, keeping you on the side for a potential FWB situation, and maybe proceeding slowly because of your more relationship like actions?

Sounds like she is looking for you to be an occasional booty call. Do you want that? Have you asked her over for one?
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:16 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Sounds like a really classy lady to me.
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:16 PM
 
Location: NY
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Sounds like a really classy lady to me.
lol
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:19 PM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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Sounds like a really classy lady to me.
Yeah class zero - lol!
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:20 PM
 
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Doesn't sound like mixed signals to me. She told you originally she wasn't looking for a serious relationship (likely with you) but with a FWB situation. She talks dirty with you. Yet, you are acting like you were seriously dating her, and removed contact when she had a bf.

Sounds like she is flirting with you, keeping you on the side for a potential FWB situation, and maybe proceeding slowly because of your more relationship like actions?

Sounds like she is looking for you to be an occasional booty call. Do you want that? Have you asked her over for one?
She says she's down for sex if she breaks up w him. She goes back and forth if she wants to stay w him or not.
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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-Said she wasn't looking for anything serious, was down for FWB
Her signals are not mixed at all.

YOU obviously wanted more than FWB. Did you say so?

Once she started acted like a FWB and got another guy, you withdrew.

I don't see how her behavior is in any way mixed-up from what she originally told you.
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:24 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Sounds like a "ticket" to a future incurable STD.
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Old 10-15-2012, 01:24 PM
 
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Her signals are not mixed at all.

YOU obviously wanted more than FWB. Did you say so?

Once she started acted like a FWB and got another guy, you withdrew.

I don't see how her behavior is in any way mixed-up from what she originally told you.
I don't want anything more than FWB, but I withdrew cause she got a BF. Why would I hook up w someone w a boyfriend?
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