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Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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As long as you don't date/sleep with/marry them, then you are right. They aren't obligated to give info.
They aren't obligated to give me this info even if I do date, sleep with or marry them.
They have the right to not answer.
I have the right to not date, sleep with, or marry them as well if they don't. Or for any reason.
But they aren't obligated to answer my question.
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Well, the info you are withholding is something that would turn many people off and they would see it as being deceptive since you know many people would not like it. Entitlement can be shown by not giving a person a choice as to wanting to date a bisexual person, even if they don't think to ask. You still know it's not something many people would go for.
I don't know any guy personally that wouldn't date a bi woman. I can't recall the last time I have dated someone that isn't at least heteroflexible. So no, I don't "know" this. Of course, not volunteering information is completely different from witholding information. If someone has kids, and they don't volunteer it, are they witholding it? No, if I want to know, I would ask. They aren't obligated to volunteer it.
And the person DOES have the choice. They have the choice to ask. I really don't think you understand the term "entitlement", you're using it incorrectly.
I think a lot of people would consider their sexual orientation to be more than a "feeling".
I never mentioned sexual orientation.
Of course, you do not define someone by the way they feel, period.
I don't care if your attracted to dead people, straight people, gay people, red people, dogs, cats, or whatever. It's a feeling and it is fleeting and makes no difference upon who you are.
But those with poor sexual boundaries only define people by their sexual attraction. it's all sex, sexual orientation, sexual this sexual that. And it is THOSE people who are tossed to and fro not able to maintain a relationship because they use these made up labels to excuse their own demanding self entitlement mentality insisting they can horn into and expect, another to disclose personal sexual feelings they endure. Worry about your own sexual feelings, get those under control because they are not if you truly think someones total personhood can be defined by them.
They aren't obligated to give me this info even if I do date, sleep with or marry them.
Well, I and many others disagree. It becomes your potential lover's (especially if marriage is involved) business if you are becoming intimate with them. Why would a bisexual person be with someone who might not like it? And bisexual people KNOW that many people do not like being with a bisexual person.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Well, I and many others disagree. Why would a bisexual person be with someone who might not like it? And bisexual people KNOW that many people do not like being with a bisexual person.
You would have to ask them. That's their choice and their business.
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Plenty of bisexual people complain about being dumped due to them being bisexual.
yeah, I wanna know if my dude is into dudes. Which means he no longer would be my partner.
LOL!
If your dude "is into other dudes?" A commitment between two people needs to be confirmed by both parties. When he is INTO you there will be a MUTUAL commitment between both of you.
You would have to ask them. That's their choice and their business.
If they sleep with or marry someone it's that person's choice and business as well to know that they are bisexual. Even if someone was okay with it, they might dump them for withholding such information.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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If they sleep with or marry someone it's that person's choice and business as well to know that they are bisexual. Even if someone was okay with it, they might dump them for withholding such information.
They might. That is their choice to do so. People can dump people for any reason they want to, or for no reason at all.
If you would have cared aka seen the red flags/signs you would not have gotten involved with a guy who then turns to drugs.
I had no experience with illegal drugs to be educated upon the red flags. He said he was working alot. Divorced parents, other reasons I felt were at play.
Most everyone was into drugs back then at our high school. It was a wide-spread problem back then.
I did care very much.I was a freshman in high school. I got him into counseling. Got him a mentor.
They might. That is their choice to do so. People can dump people for any reason they want to, or for no reason at all.
Finally. We agree.
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