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I'm aware the severity differs and I'm unsure why you seemingly think otherwise as I stated "it's on par with knowingly omitting information you know may affect your relationship." There was no mention of
severity, no mention of impact, no mention of comparing the acts in any way other than both omissions withhold because it may affect the relationship in my opinion warranting you having to 'put it in this way'.
So in otherwords it's not delusional to think as I stated omitting prostitution and omitting paternity is on par with knowingly omitting information you know may affect your relationship.
I still don't understand why you view guys who have used hookers so negatively. All they did was pay a few dollars to get their rocks off before going on their merry way. What's the big deal?
I still don't understand why you view guys who have used hookers so negatively. All they did was pay a few dollars to get their rocks off before going on their merry way. What's the big deal?
I don't understand where I made any statements, suggestions, or implications viewing guys who paid prostitutes so negatively.
I did state the difference between ONS and prostitution....no judgements on guys paying prostitutes.
I did state omitting was omitting...no judgements on guys paying prostitutes.
So where did you get that I view guys who have paid prostitutes so negatively when I haven't made any judgements on anything?
I'm unsure why you're questioning why a person would have a negative view on guys paying prostitutes as it seems likely you have some understanding as you stated that you'd lie about your actions as with your sexual actions no halfway decent gal would want you and maybe only trailer trash/porn gals would.
I'm unsure why you're questioning why a person would have a negative view on guys paying prostitutes as it seems likely you have some understanding as you stated that you'd lie about your actions as with your sexual actions no halfway decent gal would want you and maybe only trailer trash/porn gals would.
Of course I have some understanding. I once told a female friend of mine that I hooked up with a 58 year old when I was 23-24 and she found it utterly disgusting. However, that's nothing compared to other info I have on myself so I can't even imagine the reaction I'd get if I revealed more. In my case, I really don't have a choice so I usually just try to change the topic.
Of course I have some understanding. I once told a female friend of mine that I hooked up with a 58 year old when I was 23-24 and she found it utterly disgusting. However, that's nothing compared to other info I have on myself so I can't even imagine the reaction I'd get if I revealed more. In my case, I really don't have a choice so I usually just try to change the topic.
I highly doubt that you don't really have a choice as it seems more likely you don't want any choice with a response you'd dislike.
Bit bored with the 'I don't really have a choice' bs excuse used by liars and those that omit. The possible results of their lies and omissions are amusing to me the bs justifications/rationalizing isn't.
Like I said. All are red flags. But to me, seeking out prostitutes means you are breaking the law and will go pretty far to have sex on a whim. ONS depend on the reasons but also imply not wanting to make a deeper connection with people.
I think prostitution is worse and much riskier. You could get arrested or be exploiting underage or vulnerable women. If you frequent high end prostitutes that is bad bit better than frequenting the ones on the avenue. Probably on par with the ONS.
I don't know where toughly the idea that I think any of these are good choices. But they do reveal different things about your psyche.
OP, do you use escorts, massage parlors, or streetwalkers?
Actually I excluded massage parlors from my tally. Depends on the city I'm in at the time for business but mostly escorts. I've stayed in some dive towns though where the main industry seems to be prostitutes servicing truckers... lol.
Bit curious if you'd be upset if your partner decided no way were they spilling the beans when it comes to paternity if they cheated on you and had a child and knew it wasn't yours.
you're comparing two very different things. a guy's past hook-ups have no consequence for the girl other than the emotional stress it would cause her if she found out.
finding out that you've been raising another man's child is not only devastating emotionally, but there's also the financial loss in having paid for the kid's upbringing when you weren't responsible for the kid in the first place.
not only that, when a woman finds out a guy's been with a hookers, she can just walk away (assuming they're not married). but when a guy finds out the child's not his, he still has to prove it, oftentimes get forced to pay for it by the courts when he doesn't want to after said information comes to light, and is still emotionally invested in the kid.
Regarding prostitution. There are certain fetishes that a call girl is willing to 'humor' that would either be embarrassing or a downright turn off to express to a partner.
Regarding prostitution. There are certain fetishes that a call girl is willing to 'humor' that would either be embarrassing or a downright turn off to express to a partner.
So then if you have a real relationship with someone - are you going to keep going to prostitutes for your fetishes? Are you then going to ask your partner to indulge you? Are you going to give up your fetishes?
I can't see why any woman would see it as a big deal, really. Sex with a prostitute is always protected. I went to one last summer and everything was fine. Going to a prostitute is like going to the barber shop. You give them money and they do you a favor. What's the problem?
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