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Old 11-08-2012, 09:17 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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I hang out with this guy one weekend a week but he doesn't call or text. I'm thinking of dumping him cause I don't think he's into me if hes not making that much contact. How do I dump him? And how do I put it in words?
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Lol.
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:20 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Tell him it's not working out and you want to move on.

[simple]
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:26 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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Ok the thing is I like him but If hes not that into me I don't want to waste my time liking him.
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:33 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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I think I will rephrase the question: How do I dump the guy that I like? Lol
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:40 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I think I will rephrase the question: How do I dump the guy that I like? Lol
The same way.

[the end result is the same]
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Since you like him and all... had you considered asking if he'd like to spend more time with you?
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Oh good grief...
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:47 PM
 
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Sounds like you've got the right vibe: he's not into you in the way you'd like him to be.

You can:
1) Not see him this upcoming weekend and see if he allows it to fade. Either he'll let it go or he'll persist in seeing you.
or
2) Be open and honest and let him know that you get the feeling your emotions are not on equal footing. See what he says.
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:53 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Just ignore him.

Works for me.

They get the hint and disappear.
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