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Old 11-20-2012, 10:58 AM
J24
 
Location: Portland, OR
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You first said she was just talking to you, now you say that you two have been sleeping together. If you really feel so concerned that you need to tell the guy, perhaps you should stop sleeping with his girlfriend first. I feel like that'd upset him just a little. "Yo bro I did your girl." Don't think that'll go over well.

If that part actually wasn't true and you aren't sleeping together now, then stay out of it. Same goes from what I said before, if it bothers you that much that she's talking to you with a boyfriend, then simply don't talk to her. Problem solved. Let him deal with her.
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Old 11-20-2012, 11:13 AM
YAZ
 
Location: Phoenix,AZ
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She's playing you like a fiddle.

Move on already.

Sheesh.

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Old 11-20-2012, 11:26 AM
 
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Well what do you guys believe? It's ok to still keep in contact with a contact so soon after talking to them and being close? Even if they now have a bf? She literally went on a date with the guy the day after that night.... Yeah I know

I believe the whole lot of you are immature jerks. Boinking an ex that has a boyfriend? Then you want to tattle on her. For phoning you? Grow up.
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Old 11-20-2012, 11:44 AM
 
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Um she didn't have a boyfriend at the time we "boinked" so get off my butt about it
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Old 11-20-2012, 11:48 AM
 
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How old are you? This post reads like a bunch of high schoolers.
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Old 11-20-2012, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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How old are you? This post reads like a bunch of high schoolers.
This

This thread stands out even in the sea of ridiculousness that is the relationships forum
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Old 11-20-2012, 11:53 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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We already told you on your numerous other posts to leave her alone. It definitely isn't your place to call her boyfriend up...geez. All that will accomplish is to make more drama which I'm starting to think you enjoy.
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Old 11-20-2012, 12:06 PM
 
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Default Should i do what seems like the right thing?

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My ex got a new boyfriend, and I havent talked to her for 4 days straight now I know they are dating for good. She called me once yesterday, and then once this morning at like 8. You guys can be glad to hear I haven't answer either times. BUT, would it be the right thing to do, to message her new boyfriend and tell him what's going on behind his back for his sake? Or just leave it alone? I would want that kind of truth if I was in his shoes. I guess she just can't take losing me or that comfort or whatever it is but you shouldn't be contacting your ex when you are dating a guy. FACT
I'm beginning to see why she left you. You just don't get it, do you? How many time, by how many people, do you have to be told to LEAVE IT ALONE? Do you understand what that means? She can take losing you, she already has. Wake up and get over this.
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Old 11-20-2012, 12:15 PM
 
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That's what YOU believe. Either talk to her or don't - but leave the new guy out of it. You sound like you just want to make trouble.

I agree. It is none of your business. If you care so much about the new guy stop f#$%ing his girlfriend and take the high road and mind your own business.
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Old 11-20-2012, 12:16 PM
 
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It's not your obligation to inform others in the love triangle of what's going on. I would just decide for and worry about yourself in what's best for you in the relationship. Do what your gut tells you to do. Do the sensible thing.
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