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Old 11-28-2012, 03:36 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Poor thing. I think you're just hanging out with the wrong crowd. They're out there. Really

I'm not hanging around with the wrong crowd, that's always the reason people give to make up for the fact there's an ample number of men that are like this. You say they're 'out there' but I haven't come across one at 32, so it's obviously not true.'

edit: whoever left that anonymous rep...FYI I'm not looking.

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Old 11-28-2012, 05:35 PM
 
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Just because you can/the opportunity presented itself? Did you feel any regret about it after the fact, or did you believe that person was deserving of such treatment for their past indiscretions? Is it sick having the desire to have someone in the palm of your hand just to drop them like a hot potato?
There's been times when I probably could have, but I NEVER would...wishing you could devastate someone else like that makes you even worse than they are, in my opinion...I would get no satisfaction hurting another human being like that...even if they hurt me first
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Old 11-28-2012, 05:41 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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Just because you can/the opportunity presented itself? Did you feel any regret about it after the fact, or did you believe that person was deserving of such treatment for their past indiscretions? Is it sick having the desire to have someone in the palm of your hand just to drop them like a hot potato?



jUST BECAUSE THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTED ITSELF?? Not even because they did ya wrong..just because the opportunity presented itself?

WOW. Yes, that's sick.
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Old 11-28-2012, 06:07 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Is it sick having the desire to have someone in the palm of your hand just to drop them like a hot potato?
Yes.
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Old 11-28-2012, 06:09 PM
 
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Just because you can/the opportunity presented itself? Did you feel any regret about it after the fact, or did you believe that person was deserving of such treatment for their past indiscretions? Is it sick having the desire to have someone in the palm of your hand just to drop them like a hot potato?
Explain "broken" someone. I'm being serious. It must be a regional word. There's broken up with, broken down, etc. What do you mean?
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Old 11-28-2012, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Yes, dear. Time for an appointment and a couch.
And you will likely be asked about any feelings of resentment/revenge/hostility/anger you could be harboring... ...to hurt someone innocent because YOU have been hurt by another
is: wrong, unjustified, compounds your issues. You will need to dig within to find out causation for these feelings/behaviors. It could involve parent-child dynamics, problems with past girlfriends, feelings of rejection etc. This kind of behavior is seen when a person who is angry or enraged about an issue takes it out on his innocent dog. Get it?

It takes years of being an adult before someone can precisely evaluate & identify why they think in a certain way and then use that to live successful lives. But--some never get it.

However- good you asked this question...there is hope for you yet...

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Old 11-28-2012, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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No I have never broken someone not that I am aware of. I see no honor in it myself. However I have been on the other side of it more then I care to admit & more then likey I will be again.
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Old 11-28-2012, 10:30 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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Personally, no. But I have seen others do it.
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Old 11-28-2012, 11:50 PM
 
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I don't know about "breaking" them, but I've perhaps not been as cooperative as they would have liked in their own romantic lives...

But, I don't think it's my responsibility to do so. I remember all those girls in my teen years who I pined after, not to their knowledge, and they "broke" me, but now I realize that it wasn't their responsibility to take me into account...you take your life into your own hands...giving someone the ability to "break" you, then lamenting the fact they have is a sure way to end up perpetually "broken"..

if that makes sense...
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Old 11-29-2012, 07:31 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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I think in a few years we're gonna see a lot of serial killers popping up on the news and they'll all be linked to this website.

Some of you people need help, either in the form of therapy or in the form of chugging a bottle of bleach.
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