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A few people have said this but I fail to see how it is flattering
Knowing that people who have no investment in you find you sexually appealing is flattering.
It's like when your mommy tells you that you're special. Feels a little different coming from someone who isn't your mommy.
Location: Canada (I've lived in 5 different provinces)
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Originally Posted by stan4
Knowing that people who have no investment in you find you sexually appealing is flattering.
It's like when your mommy tells you that you're special. Feels a little different coming from someone who isn't your mommy.
Maybe if you haven't had much experience with people finding you sexually appealing, otherwise - not
Maybe if you haven't had much experience with people finding you sexually appealing, otherwise - not
Yeah, that's never really been a problem for me...LOL!
I used to get hit on all the time. In the weirdest situations...even when I looked like crap.
Now that I am in my 30s, I do find my position in life and $$$ tends to be intimidating to most men, but I still get a nod from a younger cutie here and there.
But I only find it complimentary if I find them cute, too. I know, I know...
I think it's funny how women determine whether something is considered creepy or not based on how the person saying or doing it looks.
Example, Guy #1 says or does something to you and he happens to be unattractive and is considered creepy.
Guy # 2 says or does the exact same thing in the exact same way and he happens to be attractive yet isn't considered creepy.
Doesn't that prove your just being biased and judging what's considered creepy based on looks alone?
To be honest, it's all creepy.
But it is less so when they're better looking...I am guessing because it would appear that the better looking guy would have more options than the snaggle-toothed uggo, so it would seem more sincere as a compliment (as opposed to a scattershot method employed by the guy who has no chance of getting any).
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