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Old 12-06-2012, 11:58 PM
 
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I've heard that some white men won't date a white woman if they find out she dated a black man or a man of another race. Why is that? Why would the race of men she previously dated matter so much?
Why don't you ask them? Any answer you get here is pure speculation.

 
Old 12-06-2012, 11:58 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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I've heard that some white men won't date a white woman if they find out she dated a black man or a man of another race. Why is that? Why would the race of men she previously dated matter so much?


Why do you care? And why is it any of your concern who dates whom? Its 2012...I can't believe that some people still have these issues.
 
Old 12-07-2012, 12:06 AM
 
Location: Unperson Everyman Land
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I think it is the parenting of how the woman was brought up that determines her choice of having a interracial relationship. Same goes for the man.

Well, you're all wrong.

Women the world over tend to find men who have an appearance different from what they are accustomed to seeing to be attractive.

It's simple evolutionary survival strategy.

The less your children are genetically similar to the neighbor's kids, the less likely they are to catch a deadly disease from them.

Take a walk through an old cemetery and you'll find entire families wiped out by Small Pox in the early part of the last century.

Epidemics have wiped out entire families throughout our history and have only recently come under control.

The ancient female drive to diversify her genes competes with the more familiar female desire to hook up with a man who has wealth and status.

Sometimes she doesn't have to choose one or the other because the proverbial dark stranger has a Benz.
 
Old 12-07-2012, 12:13 AM
 
Location: OCEAN BREEZES AND VIEWS SAN CLEMENTE
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Why do you care? And why is it any of your concern who dates whom? Its 2012...I can't believe that some people still have these issues.

Oh my freaking gosh! i agree with you for once in my life. I do agree, why does any one care, and what business is it of anyone, who someone dates, even if outside of their race. Yes it is 2012 almost 2013, people need to get over this stuff.

My sister in law is married to a black man, has been for over 34 years, he is a lawyer, good looking, they have a fantastic life, and neither one cared about who dated who before they were married.

Well since on the subject, i know a relly good black women, also very beautiful, stunning actually. Who will not date black men, cannot stand them, why, ask her don't know the answer. I just think that certain people are attracted to what they are attracted too, and should be of no concern to anyone. 2013 more important things to concern ourselves with.
 
Old 12-07-2012, 12:17 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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Hell I'm a black woman and I've met white men who are openly relieved to find out that I haven't yet dated a black guy.

When I was fifteen I had an inappropriate with relationship with an older white male (who actually was a police officer, fancy that) who when I first men pointed out random black kids in the train and asked if I found them attractive. Guess it was some sort of litmus test.
 
Old 12-07-2012, 12:21 AM
 
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I'll be honest. Nothing about a black man makes me want to date them. Nothing!
 
Old 12-07-2012, 12:22 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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*backs away*
 
Old 12-07-2012, 12:26 AM
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I'll be honest. Nothing about a black man makes me want to date them. Nothing!
But what about their special endowment? And I am not talking about government assistance

Am I in trouble for saying that?

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Old 12-07-2012, 12:30 AM
 
Location: In the Redwoods
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Hell I'm a black woman and I've met white men who are openly relieved to find out that I haven't yet dated a black guy.

When I was fifteen I had an inappropriate with relationship with an older white male (who actually was a police officer, fancy that) who when I first men pointed out random black kids in the train and asked if I found them attractive. Guess it was some sort of litmus test.
Weird! I'd bet money he had an ex who left him for a good-looking (and younger) Black man.
 
Old 12-07-2012, 12:31 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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But what about their special endowment? And I am not taking about government assistance

Am I in trouble for saying that?
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