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I think my wife may be cheating. There is a guy at her work that she texts every night, and calls him when I'm not around. I've never seen texts between them because she keeps them deleted. She has also been going out with her sister and friends a lot more lately, and at least once that i am aware of, he was there. I do not want to accuse her, but how can i ask without her taking like that? We have been together for 8 years and have a 7 month old son, so it is a sticky situation. Until the last few months i would have never even considered this, but she seems to be acting strangely and it has me worried. What should i do? Any advice?
You're going to have to confront her about this . In my experience, not only are people who suspect cheating rarely wrong, but they usually find out the real extent of the cheating is far worse than they ever imagined.
"You seem to be spending a lot of time with this guy and communicating with him a lot. You also seem more distant/unhappy/angry/whatever. Do I have anything to be worried about?" Her reaction will let you know how to proceed.
I read all of the replies and this one seems to be the most rational to me. Good luck.
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