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A frequent all night sex marathon, will shed her pounds too.
Everything I found says the average "session" burns 100 calories for men and 69 for women...many say a pound is 3,500 calories so I'm afraid there aren't enough hours in the day....but you sure can try.
I think I'd rather advise her than you. If I could speak to her, here is what I would say:
"This man says you are pretty, intelligent, have a great sense of humor, plus lots of other qualities he greatly admires. However, he is seriously thinking of discounting all that because of your weight. Even if he decides to take a chance with you, he is likely to put a lot of pressure on you to slim down, starting from day one. He'll justifying his weight fixation by explaining his family history of diabetes. I don't think he means any harm. He is probably a good guy at heart. But frankly, I think you can do better."
Everything I found says the average "session" burns 100 calories for men and 69 for women...many say a pound is 3,500 calories so I'm afraid there aren't enough hours in the day....but you sure can try.
If you are having copious amounts of sexy time , you aren't eating, so exercising and not eating will cause you to lose weight. I think I lost about 5 pounds over the weekend one time, quite possible mostly water weight though.
A frequent all night sex marathon, will shed her pounds too.
This^^^^
How much bigger is she? I mean if you're used to dating Olive Oil and stepped up to a Ashley Grah she may seem bigger to you just because you're not used to women with curves. If she looks like the Stay Puft Marshmallow man then she's either sedentary or has a medical condition or disorder
You shouldn't enter into a relationship with the thought in mind that you're going to change someone, particuarly when it comes to their body shape. You should probably leave this one alone.
This.
Her weight, for you, is a deal killer and if she is not paying attention to it now then she will likely not do so later. It will be a constant source of irritation for you, like a pebble in your shoe that you can't remove, and you will take out your frustrations on her.
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