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It wasn't so much creepy as really random and strange. He played it shortly after pulling it out of his pocket, which just added to the strangeness of it all.
All your look'n to do is get noticed. Follow from a distance and see what she has in cart or walk up nicely and ask "where did you find ----?" Then go from there. if she is chatty ur in, if she is short then she is busy and leave it at that.
Or be funny/cheezy on purpose. Run into her cart on purpose, after meeting her a few times in isles. Run it to it and say, "whoops" with a big smile and say I ment to do that. Get her to laugh and comment on how nice she looks.
Just do something! All you have to lose is your pride. hahaha
So I am walking around with my basket, and I see this girl and she is decked out and looking hot, nice dress, nice legs, boots everything. The first time I saw her she was on the her cell phone, but then the second time I had seen her, she had double backed around and wasn't on the cell phone. I know the second time she saw me looking at her, but she didn't smile or anything and kept walking down the main aisle while I was down one of the side ones. What could I have done to initiate conversation with her? I was thinking of walking down the main aisle and just saying hi, but it seemed kinda cheesy to me and if I would have done that, do I keep walking or stop?
"Hi" isn't enough to start a conversation. It's a greeting, something people say to each other when they pass each other in a grocery aisle, or on the sidewalk. In a place where you're not expecting to meet someone, you need to comment on something like in other examples people have given...something they're purchasing, a recommendation for an item, general conversation about the weather or the price of groceries, etc.
Paying attention to context helps too. Not to discourage you from approaching, but on December 23, people are last minute shopping, so their minds are elsewhere.
The key thing is whatever your approach is, you have to go into it with no expectations. That's where I think some get tripped up, thinking they're owed a response, someone's time and attention, because they initiated a contact/conversation and it took them some courage to do so.
You should wait till she goes into the cleaning aisle, and then go up to her, place your hand on her shoulder and tell her you find her very sexy and would like to see her on all fours over at your place once a week while your wife is out.
You should wait till she goes into the cleaning aisle, and then go up to her, place your hand on her shoulder and tell her you find her very sexy and would like to see her on all fours over at your place once a week while your wife is out.
Just do something! All you have to lose is your pride. hahaha
And most importantly, smile while doing it. Regardless of the outcome, you're way less likely to come off as a creepo/weirdo if you smile.
Last edited by Raging-Hetero; 12-24-2012 at 10:45 AM..
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