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I'd date that guy, OP. IF U ARE IN IL., JUST tell me, i will.ask for his #. solution is easy, i make him wear his hat everytime. Or try those hair growing surgery/meds.
You are too shallow though, enjoy being single forever. how old are u anyway?
The guy needs to get that done since he's so self-conscious about his balding issues, instead of wearing a hat 24-7.
And if the guy wants a woman that'd like just the way he is, then he shouldn't be wearing a hat to hide his balding head.
Those who call you shallow are kind of right, except they need to remember that we ALL have turnoffs.
He looks different without his hat, and he can't wear the hat all the time, for the rest of his life. It's like a pacifier!! He needs to get over it now, find a flattering hairstyle and learn to live without the hat. It's the same thing as the moment a guy takes off his boots and you realize he is 2 inches shorter than you. Sorry, but IT CHANGES THINGS.
I mean, if a woman wore a wig and then turned out to look completely different without it, a guy might have second thoughts about dating her.
I don't blame you; you need to listen to your instincts. Break it off now if you really are turned off.
Next time, don't date a guy who won't remove his hat at some point in the first 24 hours.
kinda like a bra that pushes up a girls **** so that they look firm and attractive right? So a guy should just ditch a girl after he sleeps with her and blame it on her false representation of her breasts.
What if he's really really well endowed and dynamite in the sack. Would you be able to overlook the baldness? I guess we'll never know. [Sigh] how will I ever be able to sleep at night not knowing the answer to these questions. Ooops, here comes my boss.
Do you want me to find out for you? One thing for sure hes not selfish.
kinda like a bra that pushes up a girls **** so that they look firm and attractive right? So a guy should just ditch a girl after he sleeps with her and blame it on her false representation of her breasts.
Or the first time that he sees her without makeup.
kinda like a bra that pushes up a girls **** so that they look firm and attractive right? So a guy should just ditch a girl after he sleeps with her and blame it on her false representation of her breasts.
Yes, actually. If a girl is ALL foam, and he's a boob man, they might have a problem. I suppose you are attracted to EVERYone regardless of physical appearance.
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So you guys are thinking that I'm being shallow for thinking of leaving him now. I should stay with him right? Use his money by letting him pay for more dates and buying me gifts. Oh we haven't had sex so I should have sex with him passionately to make him like me more and be more attach to me. That would be a good idea, to string him along till I find someone who I really like then that's when I will dump him. I'm a bad person that's what I should do instead of breaking up with him now.
I think you need to dump him now. The faster the better.
YellowT, you seem to be using men to make yourself feel better. Please stop. I understand some chicks don't dig balding guys. I'm going to go ahead and assume you're young(er) since balding is a huge part of life as much as you getting wrinkles or starting to hold a little extra weight in unflattering places.
I'm not calling you shallow, however, you sound extremely emotionally unintelligent. The fact that you think you need to somehow spare a man (whom isn't even in a serious relationship with you) by somehow being rude to him or "making" him dump you is extremely immature and hurtful. Start building your self worth and a good reputation by tastefully telling a man that you just don't see this progressing, and the chemistry isn't there for you. It won't be the first time or the last time he has been hurt. If he is smart, I promise he will move on. If not, then you are another learning experience for him.
These are the kinds of games I played between the ages of 15 and 19. I really hope you're not much older than that.
I don't promote shallowness, however these responses are somewhat ridiculous and holier than thou. I love how everyone is so above the OP for being honest with herself and wanting to cut it off before too much is invested. Never mind that so many people also have been real on other threads about how you cant help attraction. If it's not there, it just isn't. Let's all fight biology and stay up on that pedestal folks. Glad it works for some of you.
Is she slightly immature for other reasons? Yes. Should she settle without attraction because this guy is just so great? No. Obviously he isn't The One for her, so better to let him go find the lady he IS the One for.
I don't promote shallowness, however these responses are somewhat ridiculous and holier than thou. I love how everyone is so above the OP for being honest with herself and wanting to cut it off before too much is invested. Never mind that so many people also have been real on other threads about how you cant help attraction. If it's not there, it just isn't. Let's all fight biology and stay up on that pedestal folks. Glad it works for some of you.
Is she slightly immature for other reasons? Yes. Should she settle without attraction because this guy is just so great? No. Obviously he isn't The One for her, so better to let him go find the lady he IS the One for.
I didn't read the entire thread, but I absolutely agree you shouldn't stay with people you aren't attracted to. I was using this as a clue that she is younger since balding is a fact of life and she may or may not be used to dating men who are balding. Simply a context clue. I don't think it's shallow at all.
What I find repulsive is that she thinks she's so amazing that she is looking for a way to duck out of this relationship or make the guy dump her. That's simply cowardice and immaturity. Her mention of him being wealthy and paying for most dates makes her seem even more cowardly and immature. She obviously thinks she is worth SO much to this man that she simply must spare him (really, sparing herself) by making him do the dirty work.
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