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Old 01-05-2013, 12:05 PM
 
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I really think men don't enjoy dating. But women do. For men, take out that wallet for an investigative foray into the world of possibilities. For women, the movie and chicken Cordon Bleu are certainties.

I never thought about this until I lived in Atlanta and was involved in my north end parish full of transplants. The (Mod cut: religious slur) I love to complain about would talk about guys and sneer "He doesn't date much," as if a put down. (Many put downs came out of her mouth, actually.)

I have always viewed dating of the "getting to know" variety as a pain in the ass. Going out with someone you already know is fine.

Men and women, what do you think?

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Old 01-05-2013, 12:09 PM
 
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You seem obsessed with the people you call CAPs. Why is that? Do you just hate Cathoic women? Are you a bigot?
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Old 01-05-2013, 12:10 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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How besides dating would you get to know someone that you are interested in but aren't around all the time?
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Old 01-05-2013, 12:14 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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You seem obsessed with the people you call CAPs. Why is that? Do you just hate Cathoic women? Are you a bigot?
He's said he's Italian in descent..in which case he's probably Catholic himself, or used to be.

In which case....it's perfectly understandable.
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Old 01-05-2013, 12:15 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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I never enjoyed dating for the sake of dating and as a result, didn't do it all that often. (I can probably count on one hand the number of actual "dates" I went on.) I'd rather be home in my room listening to some music.
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Old 01-05-2013, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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I love dating. I don't mind a serious relationship, but dating is much more fun.
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Old 01-05-2013, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I think if someone were to look at dating like a series of hoops you have to jump through in order to get ...whatever you are trying to get, it would get old and not fun.

But if you see it as a fun time and plan it with that in mind, it is fun for both.
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Old 01-05-2013, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Aventura FL
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Dating has become far too much like going for a job interview. Too much pressure, not really fun. I would rather spend time indoors reading, watching TV or playing Xbox.
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Old 01-05-2013, 12:23 PM
 
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Dating has become far too much like going for a job interview. Too much pressure, not really fun. I would rather spend time indoors reading, watching TV or playing Xbox.
In what ways are dating like job interviews? That's been said quite a few times around here, and I'm genuinely curious.
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Old 01-05-2013, 12:26 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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In what ways are dating like job interviews? That's been said quite a few times around here, and I'm genuinely curious.
Some dates I've been on can give an impression you're being grilled for your qualities. It feels like you have to constantly sell yourself to remain interesting.
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