For dating/serious involvement, are you a face or body person?

[RogersParkGuy]

Originally Posted by robertpolyglot

This is NOT a beauty and fashion thread, so it belongs here. It's a(n) (sexual) attraction thread.

There are people who see a face that interests them. There others who see attributes of a body.

Which of these are apt to reel you in as to who you would want to know on an intimate level?

For me, FACE, hands down.

I think that once you are seriously involved with someone, these issues become almost irrelevant. This is more of a first-attraction question.

[believe007]

Face, I guess. A man's mind is what actually turns me on more though.
If he's articulate, intelligent & has a deep perspective...then I'm hooked.
But, for the purpose of this thread- face.
If he's got a nice smile & mesmerizing eyes, it's always a good thing.
The body we can work on

[Frihed89]

Feet.

[southernbelle20]

Neither. I go for how many of my pet peeves he does NOT have. looks, hair, body, weight all go at some point. But if he smacks while he eats, there is no way I will spend time with him. I don't care how buff he is or how beautiful his face is, don't do my pet peeves lol!

[robertpolyglot]

Surprised at the results so far.
Expected many more men to vote for body.
Expected many more women to vote for face.
Interesting.

[cloven]

For me (a woman): in terms of whether I'm attracted to a guy, the face matters most.
My parameters for someone's body occupy more varied range, are far less particular.

[Lilac110]

Face. You're not going to sit across the dinner table from each other naked.

At least not in public.

[atgss]

For me it doesn't really figure as if she doesn't possess Morals, Values and Ethics (which a good percentage don't even know what they mean never mind "living it") it's a real waste of time IMO.

[Scottay]

Face (smile and eyes) and personality (kind, relaxed and easygoing, intelligent, not type A) are #1. I could care less about the body, within reason of course. Small tattas, ok. No butt, ok. Short, tall, ehh. A few (and by a few I mean 30 or 40, not 150) extra pounds ok.

[wordlife]

I had to go for body, she could have a butterface but the body will make up for it.