What habits do you NOT want in a mate? (women, sex, attractive)

[Laychick]

A man that:

1) Carries out the sexual history double standard; a man with a promiscuous past believing he's worthy of the woman of high morals while insulting women that did the same thing he did
2) Is overly fat and still eats like a pig (nothing wrong eating a lot but at least be of acceptable frame)
3) Smokes and drinks heavily
4) Spends 24/7 watching porn to the point it's affecting his life; please don't tell me that you can't do anything else besides watch porn
5) Wants every single date to be 50/50 (even on my own b-day), instead of switching turns at least (this means one day I'll invite him, next day he does it, and so on)

[metamorphosis]

I'm by no means a prude, but if every other word is the F-word or the DB-word, I tend to believe your vocabulary is limited. I can't wait for both to go out-of-style.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by metamorphosis

I'm by no means a prude, but if every other word is the F-word or the DB-word, I tend to believe your vocabulary is limited. I can't wait for both to go out-of-style.

What's the DB-word?

[Inebriated Duck]

Deadly bugs?

Delicious burgers?

Diesel buses?

[Plzeň]

I believe he/she is referring to "douchebag," which is the only word appropriate to describe some people, such as those who say "DB-word."

[Shadow Dude]

There are multiple ones but mainly anyone who has general disregard for themselves, their surroundings, and others.

[rego00123]

nose picking...or at least not in public or around me.
dig for gold in the privacy of your own mine

[duster1979]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

I absolutely 100% disagree with you putting the Harry Potter series in with the crap that is Twilight and 50 Shades. They are in no way comparable.

Originally Posted by angelinajolie

Totally agree!!! Dude duster... you reallly need to sort out your priorities.... and since u didnt read HP, you don't get that quote!

I didn't say they were comparable. What is comparable is the obsession some folks have for those series. It has absolutely nothing to do with the content.

[Mooseketeer]

Poor Personal Hygiene

Cannot live without his Mobile phone( texts , phones or plays on it in public places like restaurants or the movies, theatre etc....)

No intellectual curiosity

Does not enjoy travelling

Does not like Animals

Wants Kids

No conversation

No Sense of Humour

Talks with his mouth full

Spits

Swears

Tatoos/Piercings

Drinks too much

Takes Drugs

Smokes

Thinks the "House Elf" will miraculously clean up after Him

Boring


Sexist, chauvibist, racist, xenophobic, homophobic

Gym Bunny

Prefers his buddies to his wife

Unkind, thoughtless, selfush, vain , spoiled,

Most of the above are character traits rather than habits per se but nonetheless deal breakers for me.

[lastwomanstanding]

What? Is how he wears socks and sandals or what he does with the toilet seat or after he uses the toilet seat REALLY that important? Yes, I'm all for clean hands. But my list of no nos include more serious offences like having too many female friends, consistently showing lack of concern for your views and feelings, being irresponsible, especially with work habits or money management, drugs beyond pot, drinking excessively and that's all at the moment. Wouldn't want to be physically abused. Bad sex is not acceptable. These are habits bad enough to be deal breakers. Of course don't like liars or racists either. Cheap guys no fun either. And no negative people.