My gf thinks I'm losing interest (guys, sex, attractive, friend)
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Ladies would you think the same? If a guy didn't push for sex or other things in 4 months.
I've been with my gf for 4 months but this is what I heard she telling her female friend last week:
Her: You know, I really care about him but it never seems to go further than making-out, nothing else. Is he really losing interest in me? Or maybe he doesn't find my very attractive.
Her friend: You mean he hasn't made any further moves yet? I don't know. It could mean any things. Maybe he's taking his time, is shy or something. I think you should ask him.
Her friend: Usually guys don't wait too long. They are already making moves.
Her: Yeah, I just wish we would be doing more things than just making-out.
She's assuming wrong. I'm not losing interest and now I'm gonna rush it because of what I heard. Truth is I don't know what she likes the most.
People can mess around and be intimate, but they can't talk!
I know but it sucks that she would rather tell this to her friend than me. Then again, she doesn't really know I don't know what she likes.
Now it's like she's gonna make me rush.
You'll find out what she likes once you get started. What were you waiting for, a moment of clairvoyance, or a sudden confession or graphic request from her? The only way to find out is to take the plunge, so to speak.
You'll find out what she likes once you get started. What were you waiting for, a moment of clairvoyance, or a sudden confession or graphic request from her? The only way to find out is to take the plunge, so to speak.
Easy said than done but ok I'll see her again on the weekend. I'll surprise her this time and now she won't think I'm not interested in her.
Have been wanting to go straight for it for a while but yes one thing her friend was right about is I'm kinda shy about it. Now I'm starting to feel bad about making her wait. Didn't mean to.
I know but I guess I'm a gentleman. But from how she talked with her friend, it's like she wants it happening soon.
Being a gentleman doesn't mean that you don't give her something she wants. If you are holding back from sex because it's your preference and you aren't comfortable yet, then you need to be straight up with her and tell her that. None of this kindergarten crap with her telling her friend and not telling you. That's lame and annoying and old and stupid and dumb.
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