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Old 02-02-2013, 04:06 AM
 
Location: Sydney, Australia
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Most use protection during oral sex, however there are some who don't. Oftentimes if you want oral sex without a condom the woman will charge more. But then there are some women who prefer you perform it without one.
Reading over a lot of your posts in this thread, you seem to know an awful lot about the thinking and workings of prostitutes... May I ask - were/are you one or did/do you use prostitutes a lot?

 
Old 02-02-2013, 04:25 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Reading over a lot of your posts in this thread, you seem to know an awful lot about the thinking and workings of prostitutes... May I ask - were/are you one or did/do you use prostitutes a lot?

I only used them for a year. I fell in love with one like the OP, and had a relationship with her. The relationship didn't last very long, but we're still friends till this day.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 04:41 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Anyone who is in business, as I am, knows that business relationships are still relationships and they are often personal. It is not a black and white issue. She clearly cares for me to some degree. The real question is, how much.
As much as your bank account can handle. $500/hour is quite an aphrodisiac and pays for an awful lot of caring. I'm sorry but the old adage about the sucker born every minute cloyingly permeates this thread. Come back in a year or so to advise the outcome.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 05:56 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Well, I don't think it's that big a deal other than the obvious drawbacks.

Personally, I wouldn't want to spend that much money on an asset I had to share.

If I had to offer advice, I'd say pretty much the same thing as I'd say to anyone else. Talk to your love interest.

I don't see this ending well, though. Doesn't seem like a wise investment for the long haul.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 06:52 AM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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He must have just watched "Pretty Woman".
 
Old 02-02-2013, 08:04 AM
 
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What about upgrading her to a middle position between escort and wife? I am talking about making her your sugarbaby. You give her a given amount of money every month on the condition you will be the only man who touches her.

So you avoid having to share her with other clients,and at the same time avoid the pressure of marriage. In fact, that type of relationship is not much different than many conventional couples where the man pays all the bills and the woman spend the whole day shopping with her man's money.


Things go wrong? You can always go back to escort-client relationship. Things to well? You make her your wife.


But hurry up, she's only 22 and I am sure some other guy could be trying the same, you should make a move and show her you mean business. Women love men who grab the bull by the horns, a "wait and see" attitude will only be a waste f time.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 08:22 AM
 
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She couldn't street walk, because police presence was heavy in her area. Plus outside of Metropolitan, there really aren't any street walkers in Atlanta. Plus the area she lived in was heavy in prositution, so she face stiff competition with other more younger girls who worked with pimps, and as such could advertise much lower rates.

So girls who work with pimps charge less? Shoudn´t be the other way round? I mean, the pimp takes a share of the revenue, so a girl who has no pimp could work for less since all the money goes to her, meanwhile the girl who works with pimps must split the money.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 08:30 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Very interesting posts in this thread, bran.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 08:31 AM
 
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I'm divorced and was just having fun. After seeing a dozen or so high-priced escorts, I ran into one that just blew me away. It felt like love at first sight. Within our first few moments in bed together, she snuggled up to me and it felt as if she'd been there forever. I've been seeing her for almost a year and it just keeps getting better and better. The sex went from okay to amazing. We usually spend a couple of days and nights together and I am always incredibly sad when it is time to leave. I'm 50 and she's 22. This is crazy impossible so I kept my feelings to myself. At best to let on is just setting myself up for a big fall. She knows I care about her but I never let on how much until last week. We were eating when I think I let it slip but I'm not really sure what I said. I meant to say something like I care about you and feel closer every time we see each other. But I think I said I'm falling in love. So I tried to cover my tracks and minimize what I had said, and told her not to worry about my head trips, that she's just so beautiful that it's easy to get carried away sometimes. But she said that she cares about me as well; that she finds this confusing, and then she attacked me and we had the best sex that I've had since I was in my twenties. And in her email the next day, she called me "my love". And she has never been one to hype the lovey stuff. That too was a first. I am her favorite and her best client but she has no reason to lie. She knows I'm not going away. She had me completely hooked long ago.

So I have to assume that she could be working me, but that really isn't her style. Another guy fell in love with her some time back and she refused to see him anymore. But with me she seems to be reciprocating. And she knows I will continue to see her whether she pretends to love me or not. So I don't know what to think. It was almost easier when I thought there was no chance. Now I'm not sure.

The worst of it is that she has affected me deeply in ways that no women ever has before, including all previous girlfriends and my ex wife.

I am so screwed! But I'll take whatever I can get. I am so pathetic!
Oh, I thought you were talking about your FORD Escort!

Nevermind!
 
Old 02-02-2013, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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I've been at this awhile and am a bit past that. After my first time. You bet! It was surreal, overwhelming! But it was also so much more normal and natural than I ever expected it could be. The women who do this are absolutely amazing. They love men. They love sex. They show genuine tenderness. And they are incredibly giving. They are simply amazing.

Dude, take the blinders off. Women who do this do not all love it and surely they don't all snuggle up to their fifty, sixty, seventy year old tricks the way you're describing. If they do, it is because they are gettin paid. You are being schooled the same way many men have. It's an old prostitution trick. The minute you called her, you were hooked in "her" eyes because she knows you as a man who is desperate enough to pay a women for sex. It's really as simple as that. Keep kidding yourself all you want, we aren't trying to hurt you (well maybe some are), but trying to get you to see the truth. Of course she is going to snuggle with you and act like she likes it, because it's better than the alternative which is to have sex with you. Wake up dude and stop spending all your money on hookers.

As far as her being well adjusted. Are you serious? Do you really think that "hookers" are well adjusted? Just because she doesn't tell you that she is "hurting" or in "pain" doesn't mean that she isn't. Do you think that she would be very successful at being a wh*re if she told "you the trick" that she hates sex, hates doing this, blah, blah, blah. Of course she is going to make it sound glamorous. That's the point. And Do you think that a girl at that age really enjoys doing things with old, saggy guys? I mean really? And weather you want to believe it or not, she is damaged goods. There's no other way to say it. Girls like this don't get into this profession because life dealt them a good hand. There is no possible way that she is happy doing what she is doing. All this other crap that she "supposively" is telling you is her own rationalization/ justification to living with herself. Sorry, someone had to say it. Of course she is going to convince herself that she loves suking on old dudes, how else does she get from one day to the next without blowing her brains out. Few women actually really love doing this type of profession. I'm talking a very small percentage. Maybe one percent, maybe. I highly doubt that she falls into that category. From everything I've read, you're just a typical "trick" getting well tricked! Good luck with all that.

She's not Julia Roberts and you're not Richard Gere and this isn't a movie. Oh, and I don't believe you about not seeing the movie, Pretty women. It's on t.v. twice a week and I doubt someone your age who was a young twenty something when the movie came out did not ever see that movie. I just don't buy it.

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