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So a man has to mow the lawn, do the dishes, and dole out compliments and all the woman has to do it take her clothes off and lay down. That's a sweet arrangement there!
It's a partnership, both people in the relationship will have responsibilities to hold up to, and yes if she doesn't hold her end of things, the relationship will go downhill quickly.
Women can mow the grass, do the the dishes and give compliments as well, but holding onto a checklist in a relationship isn't going to do anything good.
And you do these things not because you want sex, but because you honestly care for your partner and you want he or she to be happy and satisfied. Sex improves and is more frequent when both people are in a happy, blossoming relationship, not because at 6pm your checklist was completed and therefore you deserve sex.
It's a partnership, both people in the relationship will have responsibilities to hold up to, and yes if she doesn't hold her end of things, the relationship will go downhill quickly.
Women can mow the grass, do the the dishes and give compliments as well, but holding onto a checklist in a relationship isn't going to do anything good.
And you do these things not because you want sex, but because you honestly care for your partner and you want he or she to be happy and satisfied. Sex improves and is more frequent when both people are in a happy, blossoming relationship, not because at 6pm your checklist was completed and therefore you deserve sex.
Stan was insinuating that other variables must be met in order for a wife to want sex, however, men don't care about other variables and just want sex no matter what. So in Stan's example women are using sex like a carrot on the end of a stick.
Stan was insinuating that other variables must be met in order for a wife to want sex, however, men don't care about other variables and just want sex no matter what. So in Stan's example women are using sex like a carrot on the end of a stick.
No.
Just saying that some people can have sex no matter what and some people cannot have/enjoy sex if they are p*****d off for other reasons.
Like the fact that you didn't mow the lawn, didn't wash the dishes, and didn't dole out compliments?
No.
My exes did all their chores.
It was other fundamental differences and ways of cheezing me off that did our sex life in.
However, someone who was a lazy ass would never get to first base with me.
Btw, VX, you may look at those things as mere chores, but to someone else, not doing them can equal taking them for granted or not caring about their happiness. Just a heads up.
Stan was insinuating that other variables must be met in order for a wife to want sex, however, men don't care about other variables and just want sex no matter what. So in Stan's example women are using sex like a carrot on the end of a stick.
So men don't care about variables in there SO's day-to-day lives?
I sure as hell did.
If she didn't go to work because, **** it she didn't care to go, you bet I would have been pissed and if she was feeling frisky I wouldn't have had sex with her.
Or, if I worked and she was a Stay home wife, and she didn't keep the house clean and make sure the bills are paid, and all she did was sit on her ass and watch Oprah, I sure as hell would be pissed and tells me that she doesn't care about the marriage nor does she want to hold up her end of the partnership.
Yeah, I sure as hell would care. I'd care a lot, since her actions would tell me how much she values me and the relationship.
I've had angry sex before and rather enjoyed it. One time me and my ex were fighting and giving each other the silent treatment and she came out of the room and said "let's just have sex" and it was amazing!
H*ll, I once had sex while I was in terrible pain with an infected tooth!
First I would try to improve it. If he's a good person and the relationship is otherwise smooth, it would be worth it to me to have patience with playing Show and Tell.
But if he refused to listen or make any effort, then I'd dump him, because to me that would indicate a whole lot of selfishness and detachment on his part. He should be as concerned with my satisfaction as I am with his, and if he's not, out he goes.
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