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View Poll Results: Is it cheating to shag someone else while on a break?
Male: It's cheating 16 26.67%
Male: It isn't cheating 15 25.00%
Female: It's cheating 10 16.67%
Female: It isn't cheating 19 31.67%
Voters: 60. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-20-2013, 04:12 PM
 
Location: USA
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I don't think it was cheating but I agree with this.
And if she was really into him and she shagged the other guy to get back at the boyfriend then she's crazy for having "Revenge" sex. Who does that? Good oppurtunity to get pregnant or to catch something
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:15 PM
 
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You quite obviously missed the part that stated HE was the one who wanted the break, not her.

You're projecting.
Yeah, i was speaking more in general terms, rather than about this specific scenario. If he is the one that requested the break, than he is a dumbass.
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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I'd say it was cheating if her intention is to get back with her bf. If she has no intention of reconciling, then it's not cheating.
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:24 PM
 
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Yes, but if youre not together, then why not just move on and break things off for good? If you intend to cheat on the person you are in a long term relationship with, yet leave them under impression that you need a little time off in order to sort things out in your head, but in reality you only want to bang someone else, its not only cheating, its also deceit and lies. People will go to any lengths to justify their disgusting behavior and their s1uttish ways.
I don't know, Ascension. Ask the guy who wanted the break. I don't do breaks; I'm all in or all out.

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And if she was really into him and she shagged the other guy to get back at the boyfriend then she's crazy for having "Revenge" sex. Who does that? Good oppurtunity to get pregnant or to catch something
Probably more people than you imagine. Emotion often trumps logic.
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:25 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Yes, but if youre not together, then why not just move on and break things off for good? If you intend to cheat on the person you are in a long term relationship with, yet leave them under impression that you need a little time off in order to sort things out in your head, but in reality you only want to bang someone else, its not only cheating, its also deceit and lies. People will go to any lengths to justify their disgusting behavior and their s1uttish ways.
Hold on. HE instituted the break without qualification, then she slept with someone else.
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:27 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I'd say it was cheating if her intention is to get back with her bf. If she has no intention of reconciling, then it's not cheating.
How long should she wait for the break to resolve itself by becoming a permanent break up or reconciling?
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:27 PM
 
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Hold on. HE instituted the break without qualification, then she slept with someone else.
She doesn't waste no time getting around....Sounds like a relationship made in hell to me.
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:29 PM
 
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How long should she wait for the break to resolve itself by becoming a permanent break up or reconciling?
Two day? Are you ****ing kidding me? Probably hadn't slept with BF #1 in weeks. That makes her a hoe.
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:31 PM
 
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How long should she wait for the break to resolve itself by becoming a permanent break up or reconciling?
I feel a date should be pre-determined. Two weeks, four weeks or whatever. That is plenty of time to do lots of thinking and doesn't leave either party hanging.
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Old 03-20-2013, 04:31 PM
 
Location: NYC
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She doesn't waste no time getting around....Sounds like a relationship made in hell to me.
I can't speak to someone else's state of mind, but my understanding is that the other man is someone she knew for a while as friends. Probably he was always attracted to her but I don't know that for sure. I would also guess that she was sending put sexual signals to him once the break happened, but again I don't know for sure.
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