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I met a guy a few months ago and we hit it off. When the time came, he had a hard time,well, keeping it hard. I didn't see him for a couple of months and we've recently been talking again. Well, the other nite it happened again. Now we were drunk and he mentioned that it had to do w/ his morals, (I'm still married), but I'm wanting to know if this is a thing w/ him or is it me, and to let him know it's ok if it's a common problem for him. How can I go about this?
This thread isn't to bash me for still being married and looking, BTW. I'll start a new one for that if need be.
Rynn are you separated if so will filing for a divorce help you boyfriend feel more comfortable that you've moved past your ex husband ? I'd talk to him and see if there's anything you can do to help ease his stress maybe that will help him .
don't bring it up so soon. some people take a little while to become comfortable with someone in the bedroom, and for men this can result in temporary ED. having it brought up might make it worse, just give it a few weeks (assuming this is someone you want to see again and is worth a small amount of effort)
don't bring it up so soon. some people take a little while to become comfortable with someone in the bedroom, and for men this can result in temporary ED. having it brought up might make it worse, just give it a few weeks (assuming this is someone you want to see again and is worth a small amount of effort)
Yep.
This happened with the first girl I slept with directly after my separation. We tried a few times, but I kept losing it after a few minutes.
Although I remember thinking her breath was kind of bad, and she kept trying to jump straight into pornstyle jackhammer type of stuff, which wasn't my cup of tea. Eventually I gave up, cuddled, and we both had a "this isn't working" moment together, where we discussed how different we liked it. The honesty was nice.
The 4-5 girls I've been with since, it really hasn't been a problem. But I think I'm just more used to the idea of being single now...
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