I need urgent advice from girls please (married, woman, older)

[Desmond181]

no I am not a troll . i asked advice and I got it . but the truth hurts to hear

[funymann]

Originally Posted by Desmond181

I dont like being used . i,ll get rid of her then

She tells you to keep trying? Don't give up?? Lol!!

She has a boyfriend but wants to keep you on the side as backup if this guy doesn't work out??? Lol!!

You are waaaaaay to young to be thinking about this stuff. Why dont you go burn some gas on the four wheeler or something.... Good night!!

[srjth]

Get off the net and date girls at your high school or in your neighborhood.

[NewHavensFinest]

The distance thing, is your barrier.

The barrier that stops her from advancing any further with the relationship.


My best advice would be:

Forget about it.
Stay buddies with her.
Save up for a plane ticket, and wait till shes single.


Not much you can do with the situation, it stinks but theres like billions of other girls for you in the world.

You can find a Honduran girl where you live probably

[Desmond181]

I agree with NewHavensFinest
but yeah . no girls in my area are interested in me and I did not choose this honduran girl . i feel attracted to her and i have no control over that
i,ll get rid of her anyway . i dont like being a second option
its degrading

[Desmond181]

I have nothing special for hondurans ... its not a honduran i seek
its just that in my area which is clifton , everybody acts ghetto and i cant stand them
I am a high school senior that has b+ grades and is an introvert
yeah ... not in new jersey . maybe in another country
she obviously said yes to me if i was to ask her out . no girl has ever said that to me

[intelfan11315]

Originally Posted by Desmond181

I have nothing special for hondurans ... its not a honduran i seek
its just that in my area which is clifton , everybody acts ghetto and i cant stand them
I am a high school senior that has b+ grades and is an introvert
yeah ... not in new jersey . maybe in another country
she obviously said yes to me if i was to ask her out . no girl has ever said that to me

Introverts don't have to be shy. I'm an introvert, and one of the most outgoing people you'll meet. What's nice about being an introvert is that you love your time alone. It makes it much easier getting over women and relationships in general.

Work on talking to people who seem interesting to you, even if it's awkward at first. You're in high school, go out have some drinks and enjoy time with your friends. Hit on girls and get rejected, it's all fun man. You got a couple months left and then you get to go to college where things actually matter.

[Desmond181]

getting rejected is not my idea of fun

[intelfan11315]

No one gets rejected every time, but only losers dwell on rejections and don't think about the possibility of success. That's something you should think about, even outside of dating.

You can have the thought process of a winner or a loser, your choice.

[Desmond181]

well spoken