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Old 05-16-2013, 01:01 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Yep. Just experienced it yet again with a guy I really liked. I've deleted my online accounts and don't plan on dating anytime soon. I'm just over it.
NOOO!!! I thought you met a nice guy and things seemed promising. He just disappeared?? This makes me sad.
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Old 05-16-2013, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Western NY
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Yep. Just experienced it yet again with a guy I really liked. I've deleted my online accounts and don't plan on dating anytime soon. I'm just over it.
I understand. It's tiresome to keep dealing with that.
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Old 05-16-2013, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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NOOO!!! I thought you met a nice guy and things seemed promising. He just disappeared?? This makes me sad.
Yep. As usual, he disappeared after seeing my scars. It's almost like a joke now.... it's happened EVERY SINGLE TIME and it's getting old. I'm done with dating for a while.
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Old 05-16-2013, 01:44 PM
 
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So, I do this a lot.

Usually it's because I'm not really ready for anything.
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Old 05-16-2013, 03:58 PM
 
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I appreciate everyone sharing their experiences. I truly thought he wouldn't be one of "those" guys - the type to lead you on and then vanish. At least if I'm not interested in dating someone, I call him and politely tell him that we're not a good match.

The reality is, however, that I still feel sad.
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Old 05-16-2013, 04:27 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I appreciate everyone sharing their experiences. I truly thought he wouldn't be one of "those" guys - the type to lead you on and then vanish. At least if I'm not interested in dating someone, I call him and politely tell him that we're not a good match.

The reality is, however, that I still feel sad.
They're all like that until proven otherwise.

I'm assuming this goes for women as well, I just don't have any experience with dating them. People are flaky, you should probably just get used to it.
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Old 05-16-2013, 04:36 PM
 
Location: England
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Make him chase you.

If he likes you enough he will call YOU.

Good luck.
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Old 05-16-2013, 04:43 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Yep. As usual, he disappeared after seeing my scars. It's almost like a joke now.... it's happened EVERY SINGLE TIME and it's getting old. I'm done with dating for a while.
What a jerk!! I'm really sorry.

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I appreciate everyone sharing their experiences. I truly thought he wouldn't be one of "those" guys - the type to lead you on and then vanish. At least if I'm not interested in dating someone, I call him and politely tell him that we're not a good match.

The reality is, however, that I still feel sad.
I'm sorry he flaked on you. It definitely hurts and you have every right to be sad. Maybe take a break for awhile and regroup.
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