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Most 20-somethings would go home with anything better than a 2 - provided that it's female and human... and the former is somewhat negotiable.
Let's say that is the case...all 20 something's go home with 6's, 2's, 1's, -3's, etc etc who cares....if that's always been the case then why are there more of them coming at me now then when I was younger is the question? I'm very introverted so being more forward is definitely not. It.
I'm leaning towards the pheromones explanation....
You know how they say women's hormones get to raging around a certain age? As in 30s/40s?
Well I'll be 35 next year and for the past year I feel like my hormones have been outta control for real. All I think about all day is sex. When I'm on the train, I stare at men's butts and fantasize about touching them lol
I undress men with my eyes all day. My porn watching has also increased...I feel like I'm always "in heat" and every where I turn there's an attractive man I wish I could just 'jump' right then and there lol.
You answered your own question with the above highlighted statement. Your hormones are out of control for real. It is a combination of getting older, getting ready for Motherhood and/or early menopause.
Your options are to leave things as they are and see what happens or go to the Doctor and have a few tests done and see how out of whack your hormones really are then decide if you want to do something about it.
Some cougars were too unattractive in their prime mating years to get a decent man to commit to them. Some are divorced and overestimated their competitive value on the sexual market as older versions of themselves. Some have given up attracting the men they really want (i.e. older men with means and options who don’t want them) and have chosen the pathetic life of offering their aged, used up selves free of charge to horny younger guys who just want to dump a quick bang in any available hole, no muss no fuss.
Then there are the women who became cougars because of their own stupid choices. These are the sad detritus of former urban sl*t machines; the women who spent their valuable youth hopping from one alpha c*ck to another only to wake up a day late and a wedding ring short in their early 30s wondering why the alphas no longer look at them with lust in their eyes. Now, even the beta males don’t want them. They are forced to settle, and settle hard. If they can.
Here’s a juicy irony: The anti-aging industry that cougars cling to like life support is the brainchild of betas. Those same dull, socially awkward nerds the cougars ignored when they were kittens are busily inventing the science and technology that may one day grant them a reprieve from the horror of fading beauty.
If the betas disappear, well… so do the cougars’ hopes.
Jesus. Biologically, I'm right. But alright, let's hear the rationalization about how a woman pushing 40 is hotter than a 25 year old. And let's talk in generalities, not how **some** men would prefer a "mature" woman.
Um, I'm good but not actually the Messiah.
I'm not saying every 40-yr-old is better than every 25-yr-old. My point is that your comment only reveals your obviously VERY narrow scope of experience.
... wake up a day late and a wedding ring short in their early 30s wondering why the alphas no longer look at them with lust in their eyes. Now, even the beta males don’t want them. They are forced to settle, and settle hard. If they can.
As a beta-male, I respectfully have to disagree. We betas have spent decades wondering why our trinkets and McMansions and gym-broadened shoulders aren't attracting the 4s and 5s out there. When we're not busy scribbling forlorn threads along the lines of "short lawyer can't get any action in the court room", or "Why are all of the other partners in my firm convinced that I'm gay", we're the butt of jokes by our alpha brethren, who occasionally invite us to their houses, provided that we curtail making slobbering glances at the alpha's now-teenage daughters. Betas have myriad self-esteem issues, and therefore we offer the following proposition to the cougars:
1) Take another 2-3 years to have your fun with the 25-year-olds.
2) Thereafter, realize that your feline charms won't last forever, and grab yourself a nice reliable beta!
Jesus. Biologically, I'm right. But alright, let's hear the rationalization about how a woman pushing 40 is hotter than a 25 year old. And let's talk in generalities, not how **some** men would prefer a "mature" woman.
I fail to see how a 34 year old is "pushing 40".
That's a stretch.
Some cougars were too unattractive in their prime mating years to get a decent man to commit to them. Some are divorced and overestimated their competitive value on the sexual market as older versions of themselves. Some have given up attracting the men they really want (i.e. older men with means and options who don’t want them) and have chosen the pathetic life of offering their aged, used up selves free of charge to horny younger guys who just want to dump a quick bang in any available hole, no muss no fuss.
Then there are the women who became cougars because of their own stupid choices. These are the sad detritus of former urban sl*t machines; the women who spent their valuable youth hopping from one alpha c*ck to another only to wake up a day late and a wedding ring short in their early 30s wondering why the alphas no longer look at them with lust in their eyes. Now, even the beta males don’t want them. They are forced to settle, and settle hard. If they can.
Here’s a juicy irony: The anti-aging industry that cougars cling to like life support is the brainchild of betas. Those same dull, socially awkward nerds the cougars ignored when they were kittens are busily inventing the science and technology that may one day grant them a reprieve from the horror of fading beauty.
If the betas disappear, well… so do the cougars’ hopes.
Ring some heart wrenching bells?
Yep. Women that are simply not chosen buy guys from their standards. Live in fantasy "cougar" world. Yep that hormones can hit some women in 40ties and they look for sex. Only what will find is rock bottom man. As I'm concerned, health and money, will not be creasy about women.
As a beta-male, I respectfully have to disagree. We betas have spent decades wondering why our trinkets and McMansions and gym-broadened shoulders aren't attracting the 4s and 5s out there. When we're not busy scribbling forlorn threads along the lines of "short lawyer can't get any action in the court room", or "Why are all of the other partners in my firm convinced that I'm gay", we're the butt of jokes by our alpha brethren, who occasionally invite us to their houses, provided that we curtail making slobbering glances at the alpha's now-teenage daughters. Betas have myriad self-esteem issues, and therefore we offer the following proposition to the cougars:
1) Take another 2-3 years to have your fun with the 25-year-olds.
2) Thereafter, realize that your feline charms won't last forever, and grab yourself a nice reliable beta!
I don't understand this line of reasoning. Most of the men I know would qualify as betas (that stands to reason, "alphas" are the more rare type, according to the mythology) and most of them are married or at least hooked up. And they didn't have to buy their women with trinkets or huge houses.
And their girlfriends/wives definitely qualify as at least 4s or 5s, as you put it. Lots of very pretty, fit women here in SoCal who are married to men you'd call "betas," who aren't rich. They just happened to love one another...go figure.
I think a lot of the time (not saying this is you), saying you're "a beta" or saying women who are "average" "demand" loads of gifts is just an excuse. There's some other reason the women aren't coming to the man who is complaining. Always look to yourself first. There may be another reason, and in fact, there probably is. Maybe something easily fixable.
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