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Old 05-30-2013, 05:43 PM
 
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you don't have to be a whiz in math to be college material...there are many careers that don't involve math...
I was thinking of maybe journalism.
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Mom's like to see their children dating people that have things going for them...such as ambition and goals...if you have those traits most(not all) parents will love you!!
I hope so but it would really suck if I've tried everything and it doesn't work out.
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Old 05-30-2013, 05:55 PM
 
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You have no clue what absue actually is........it is NOT the quantity, it is the quality. ONE TIME IS TOO MANY, it does NOT have to be ongoing OR happen twice a year, or happen daily it can happen ONE TIME and it IS ABUSE, uncontrolled, anger induced, physically striking or touching another in a moment of anger, that is what is abuse.......
True maybe I had no clue what abuse really was. I guess I had always associate it with a bully that's huge and you can't fight him else you get beaten even more. If what I was doing to my bf is abuse then that's new to me. I had no idea. I was thinking it was just my temper that day and nothing else.

When I asked for one of my friends about this, she left me thinking. She asked if I would concern it abuse if it was him shaking or hitting me or if I had be ok with it and pretend it didn't happen. Interesting point. I think I would be creeped out.
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Old 05-30-2013, 06:00 PM
 
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I'm willing to bet the OP would not like it if her bf started getting physical or if he would have been a meaner guy that retaliates.
This is almost the same thing one of my friends told me. I think I would probably be too shocked to react and freaked out.
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Where did the OP learn that it was ok to put your hands on your partner in anger?
I don't know. None that I can think about.
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Old 05-30-2013, 06:03 PM
 
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You weren't being nice to her with the comment where you said, "I was calling him, not you." (Paraphrased as I'm not going to search back through the thread to find it.) If you are ever to win her trust again, it will take time. It's not a case of being nice to her for a few weeks, a few months or even a year. It's an every day thing even if you have to do it through clenched teeth. It's asking her how she's been, talking about mundane things and just letting her see that you're not a bad kid. (Which, frankly, is still open to debate, if you ask me.)
Wow, it sure if going to take a long while but ok no problem. I hope she does sees I'm changing and really care about her son.
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Old 08-05-2013, 10:41 AM
 
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Old 08-05-2013, 10:49 AM
 
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fun fact: she will probably always hate you.

just go on with life and be a decent person to her and her son and accept the fact she may never see who you are at face value.
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Old 08-05-2013, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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fun fact: she will probably always hate you.

just go on with life and be a decent person to her and her son and accept the fact she may never see who you are at face value.
this ^^^^^^

If she hates you, she would be consumed by that hate. It is her problem.
As long as you are a decent person who treats everybody with respect, treats people the way you want to be treated. You would find genuine true love and you will get respect in return.

Don't worry about her, live your own life. Remember the happiness and good people in your life.

Good luck to you op.
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