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Old 06-14-2013, 07:20 PM
 
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My dear old dad said "any woman worth having sex with is worth marrying" - I think he had that right...don't get involved with anyone - unless you are thinking long term...Just to have sex and then dump them is kind of dirty and shows no class.
Different opinions as I see nothing negative about having sex with a person then dumping them with the exception of how one gets to the point of having sex if it's consensual and mutually desired with both partners having full knowledge of other's intentions cool if it's manipulation, coercision, pressure, lies then not cool. Bit curious as to why is it kind of dirty to you and how is it indicative of class?
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Old 06-14-2013, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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I kinda hope he doesn't.
****s and giggles or are you just a dirty girl?
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Old 06-14-2013, 08:07 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Different opinions as I see nothing negative about having sex with a person then dumping them with the exception of how one gets to the point of having sex if it's consensual and mutually desired with both partners having full knowledge of other's intentions cool if it's manipulation, coercision, pressure, lies then not cool. Bit curious as to why is it kind of dirty to you and how is it indicative of class?
And that's the distinction. If it's consensual and both parties know it's not going anywhere I think that's awesome. Casual sex is great if both parties are on the same page. But when one party is pretending to like the other and promising things they have no intention of following through with just to get sex...well, that's manipulation and that's really terrible.
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Old 06-15-2013, 05:25 AM
 
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You're awesome, ignore Mr Grumpy Pants. He's busy protecting his life partner the plane from the next gold digger that comes his way.



I don't know, will he shave his legs first?
IF I did not have a plane to fly I would go down and have my lawyer draft up a living will and check every single box so if anything happened I would be done. Life without flying or sex is not really living its simply existing.

Then if the hospital saved me I could sue them to the moon and rebuy a plane. I would probably have to spend a lot of that money getting my medical back after being nearly dead anyways.
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Old 06-19-2013, 03:41 PM
 
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Maybe more of us men should spend more time cultivating relationships, and less time reading PUA blogs for the ever-so-noble sole goal of...getting laid.

Those women who have "deal-breakers" related to personal/character attributes probably have higher standards than (many) men, and aren't looking for a hookup partner the way a lot of men seem to be.
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Old 06-19-2013, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Maybe more of us men should spend more time cultivating relationships, and less time reading PUA blogs for the ever-so-noble sole goal of...getting laid.

Those women who have "deal-breakers" related to personal/character attributes probably have higher standards than (many) men, and aren't looking for a hookup partner the way a lot of men seem to be.
Couldn't rep you again but completely agree!

You see guys on here complaining that women want more than just a pretty face/body...as if that's a bad thing. If you want a relationship versus a ONS, you need to be a little more discerning about who you spend time with and realize that attraction goes much farther than just surface appearance.
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