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Maybe she has a crush, maybe she doesn't. Does it matter? If you can't handle being around this woman the don't be. It sounds like its time to put a little distance there.
I agree with this. Just because she asked you or talks with you does automatically mean she's crushing on you. It could be looked at that she was being nice.
Sounds like she was asking as a co-worker to build a working relationship. (Co-worker or supervisor, I couldn't make that out.) But the whole post still seems odd to me. I think you were reading way more into it than there really was.
Its not good if married woman think negative because married woman have been not for u only for money or sex, because they are interest to u one day,one month,or six month then another guy to respond not u, its not good for lunch if their thinking is positively then its not bad.
I keep asking how stupid people can get, I think some take it as a challenge.
All are married and employed. You take and screw around, no longer married or employed. Does it stop there? Nope you will have to pay for your willful stupidity with no income. Good luck.
Like I said i am not planning on having an affair. I was surprised that she even asked me to lunch alone, specifically because she was married. I know myself I won't ask a married co-worker to lunch alone.
I have never been good at reading a woman's intention, which is why I asked.
I have never been good at reading a woman's intention, which is why I
asked.
Ok, but the fact is you shouldn't be putting so much energy into caring what her intentions are. You shouldn't be focusing on that, because it shouldn't matter. If she does have a crush on you, ok, ego boost - but at the end of the day you're not going to act on it, so what's the use in thinking about it? Like a previous poster said, it's time to apply some distance here. Obsessing over something you don't have, instead of cherishing what you currently have, is not good for anybody.
Terrible advice! Ignore and don't make a permanent decision based on a temporary situation. If you are not happy in your marriage talk with your spouse and try to improve it.
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