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Old 06-15-2013, 11:26 AM
 
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Very easy to untangle that one: one is honest. The other is not. Honesty always trumps deception.
Breaking the law isn't what I would call honest. Neither is assistance to the drug trade.....or various other criminal acts that go with hookers and their pimps.

He could even find himself "rolled" or killed if he isn't careful.
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Old 06-15-2013, 11:29 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Guy B is worse. But, yeah, Guy A better tell any sex partners he has in the future (prior to having sex with them) that he's been to prostitutes ... or else he becomes worse (because prostitutes have a high rate of STDs).

The worst is people who have STD's or likely have STD's but don't care if they give someone else an STD. That's just sick and pathetic, man.
If he goes to a brothel or uses some sort of escort service, those women are tested very frequently. If he uses prostitutes off the street...well, I'd be more concerned about giving money to people who participate in human trafficking and are often very abusive than the possibility of STDs.

Having casual sex with random people is far more dangerous.
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Old 06-15-2013, 11:31 AM
 
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Oh good grief, isn't there something you need to be doing outside in the yard away from the computer?

Does it matter what others think about how you live your life? Do what you want, it is your life, your decision, your morals, your health, your money.
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Old 06-15-2013, 12:28 PM
 
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If he goes to a brothel or uses some sort of escort service, those women are tested very frequently. If he uses prostitutes off the street...well, I'd be more concerned about giving money to people who participate in human trafficking and are often very abusive than the possibility of STDs.

Having casual sex with random people is far more dangerous.
Oh, I see. As you can see, I know nothing about this.
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Old 06-15-2013, 08:58 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Guy B is worse. Guy A isn't hurting anyone with the exception of women who are trafficked for sex or owned by pimps.
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Old 06-15-2013, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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If he goes to a brothel or uses some sort of escort service, those women are tested very frequently. If he uses prostitutes off the street...well, I'd be more concerned about giving money to people who participate in human trafficking and are often very abusive than the possibility of STDs.

Having casual sex with random people is far more dangerous.
Agreed.

The liar is worse. These are the type I avoid. I can't stand liars.
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Old 06-15-2013, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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Here are two situations.

Guy A wants to sleep with a variety of women, but hates lying to them so decides to just pay for it to avoid time, drama, and the lies.

Guy B wants to sleep with a variety of women and doesn't care what he says in order to sleep with various women. It's all about sex. He makes up lies about his life in order to create attraction and pretends to want relationships and once he sleeps with them he moves on to the next conquest.

Both men are equal in looks, financial status, education, social status, age, and both have no trouble getting into relationships but both just want to have as much sex as they can with different women before they settle down.

Who's worse? The guy sleeping with prostitutes or the guy who lies to women to sleep around? Or are they both equally bad?
Which is the bigger douche bag? The question is redundant. They are both douche bags.
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Old 06-16-2013, 06:07 AM
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IMO Guy B is in the act of lovemaking or at least pretending he is.
Guy A is involved in the sexual equivalent of having a woman change your diaper.
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Old 06-16-2013, 06:21 AM
 
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Guy B is only doing what women do as well. Guy A is taking care of his life and not harming anyone.

They are both good guys.
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Old 06-16-2013, 06:48 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Here are two situations.

Guy A wants to sleep with a variety of women, but hates lying to them so decides to just pay for it to avoid time, drama, and the lies.

Guy B wants to sleep with a variety of women and doesn't care what he says in order to sleep with various women. It's all about sex. He makes up lies about his life in order to create attraction and pretends to want relationships and once he sleeps with them he moves on to the next conquest.

Both men are equal in looks, financial status, education, social status, age, and both have no trouble getting into relationships but both just want to have as much sex as they can with different women before they settle down.

Who's worse? The guy sleeping with prostitutes or the guy who lies to women to sleep around? Or are they both equally bad?
Guy A isn't misleading people therefore has nothing to be ashamed of. I have no problem with him.

Guy B is misleading people and playing with their emotions. Guy B is worse.
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