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Old 06-23-2013, 09:01 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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If you are angry at someone else its a great way to get rid of your anger.
See, I don't stay angry for long. I can't hold a grudge. I just can't hold onto a feeling that long you know? The problem stays but the anger just doesn't last.
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Why were you angry?
My wife and I have a really contentious relationship. We really should have never been together.
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Pa
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See, I don't stay angry for long. I can't hold a grudge. I just can't hold onto a feeling that long you know? The problem stays but the anger just doesn't last.
I don't hold grudges either. But I do get mad.
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:05 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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See, I don't stay angry for long. I can't hold a grudge. I just can't hold onto a feeling that long you know? The problem stays but the anger just doesn't last.
Same for me... I can't stay mad that long, assuming it wasn't something huge....

I get bored or forget why I was so mad at her, then I want to make a joke to make her laugh....
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:17 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Let's say that your partner has really upset you and you've had a big argument and not made up but your partner wants to have sex the same day/night, can you do it?
Yes.

If a woman loves her man, and knows he loves her too, she is wise to have sex with him even if they haven't officially made up.
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I rarely get mad/angry and never over anything stupid or trivial, so my answer is no. If I'm genuinely mad/angry with you, I need some time to cool off alone. Generally speaking, I don't give/allow someone to have that kind of power over me, but then again, I've never been in a relationship that lasted longer than a couple months. I'm sure its different when you have more emotional invested into the relationship.
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:18 PM
 
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But can you have sex when you ARE mad? (i.e. you have not let go of the feeling)

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My wife and I have a really contentious relationship. We really should have never been together.
So you two always have angry sex. Interesting.

Do you think you prefer it that way now?
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:19 PM
 
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Yes.

If a woman loves her man, and knows he loves her too, she is wise to have sex with him even if they haven't officially made up.
I didn't specify gender in the OP. It could be the man who is mad at the woman.
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:24 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I remember having angry sex in my 20's. I don't really get angry very often anymore, so it's tough to say.
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:26 PM
 
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I rarely get mad/angry and never over anything stupid or trivial, so my answer is no. If I'm genuinely mad/angry with you, I need some time to cool off alone. Generally speaking, I don't give/allow someone to have that kind of power over me, but then again, I've never been in a relationship that lasted longer than a couple months. I'm sure its different when you have more emotional invested into the relationship.
Some people actually make up THROUGH sex. No words or discussion, just sex as a way to make things right=Makeup sex.
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