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I know some advice you get on here sometimes for struggling guys is too look at people you know who do well with women and pick things up from them.
But if your friend gets tons of women and looks are a major part of why what the hell can you really learn from him other then to get plastic surgery and get a handsome face
I really dont see what tips you can gather form somebody who women crush on before he even opens his mouth.
I know some advice you get on here sometimes for struggling guys is too look at people you know who do well with women and pick things up from them.
But if your friend gets tons of women and looks are a major part of why what the hell can you really learn from him other then to get plastic surgery and get a handsome face
I really dont see what tips you can gather form somebody who women crush on before he even opens his mouth.
When will some guys on this forum realize it isn't all about looks.
First, are you in shape? If not, that's your first fault. You can't blame chicks for not wanting a guy who's grossly out of shape. At least the more attractive women. As for the rest of you genetically, a lot of it is in your head.
If you have a genuinely killer personality, and are in decent shape, you can meet girls unless you're like beyond deformed. I have a feeling these people lack confidence and interpersonal skills that also think good look guys just always have women chasing them. I have several really really good looking friends that have a hard time getting laid sometimes.
I know some advice you get on here sometimes for struggling guys is too look at people you know who do well with women and pick things up from them.
But if your friend gets tons of women and looks are a major part of why what the hell can you really learn from him other then to get plastic surgery and get a handsome face
I really dont see what tips you can gather form somebody who women crush on before he even opens his mouth.
Those guys that have tight game will argue till their dead that if you work out, get a position as a CEO, and have a smashing personality, that any guy can he successful dating.
Some guys that are not hot can be successful dating. But they have a part of their personality that is extremely attractive to women. Maybe they are really funny. Or maybe due to their body, they attract certain kinds of women that appreciate that, and then they have enough personality to have success dating.
The truth is, if a guy struggles dating while he is mostly height/weight proportionate, somewhat successful career, and a decent personality, he will probably always struggle to date.
All humans are nurtured and socialized to want the best they can get, and that includes a s/o as good looking as possible. Some people settle on looks, but attractive people seldom settle there.
HoustonDan commented about "its all personality". Right buddy, its your personality standing there in fish net stockings that is turning women on.
Some people will never admit that the reason they date well is strictly based of off what mommy and daddy gave them. Their ego can't handle it, as if they did come to terms with this, they wouldn't feel 'in control' anymore.
The best way to gage if a guy has tight game or whether his looks are his skill is to see often women pursue him. If a man gets hit on and approached by women frequently for basically no reason, then his tight game has nothing to do with datin success.
If you aren't being approached by women frequently, then you have to make yourself appear to be a man that a woman would consider an attractive man. Good health, good careeer, and great personality. But just know, that even with those 3 traits, if a woman has to choose between a hot guy, and a guy with good health, good career, and personality, she will typically go for the hot guy.
Wearing a harness with powerful electromagnets will attract any woman with an underwire bra. Just switch it on when you see an attractive woman. Sooner or later, you'll be attached to one.
If a handsome man is using his looks to have a series of one night stands with women who are attracted that much by his looks, he really has no advice to give about how to attract a girlfriend or how to relate to women.
He is not attractive to a lot of women, because he is a user. He does not have relationships, so he has no way to know how to make a relationship work. He doesn't even know if they are good to be around becasue he doesn't spend that much time with them.
My advice to guys who have to make more effort to attract women, is to put even more effort into it, and establish a long term relationship where you care about your partner. That gives you a date every weekend and the relationship part of it is quite rewarding: to have someone who cares about you and understands you and that you have common interests with might be different than sex every night with a different partner, but it is different in a good way,
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