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Oh Ascension...silly boy! Have you not seen the laments of guys on this forum, complaining that a well-written profile is too much effort? Sending more than a wink is too much effort? (And they think the hard part is getting a date, nevermind the effort required to maintain a relationship.)
Yeah this is a joke. My profile was super tongue and cheek and sarcastic. A few parts being serious, but was mostly a joke. I got tons of compliments and laughs out of it.. I'm sure if I had creepy pics it wouldn't have mattered tho lol.
The thing is - just because one guy is hot and the other guy isn't - that doesn't mean that he can't provide some insight. And just because a guy is attractive - it doesn't mean he's good with women or good with relationships. And just because a guy is unattractive - that doesn't mean that he's bad with women or bad with relationships. I don't know - I just think advice is advice. If it helps - great. If it doesn't - who cares? As a new mom - I get all sorts of advice from other moms. Some of it is helpful - some isn't.
You're right in the strictest sense but, and maybe this is just me, I interpret the question not as whether a hot guy can give an ugly guy *any* advice at all but enough advice to make a significant improvement in the ugly guy's success with women. And I don't think they can because unless you have walked a mile in someone else's shoes you don't know what they are facing and feeling.
You're right in the strictest sense but, and maybe this is just me, I interpret the question not as whether a hot guy can give an ugly guy *any* advice at all but enough advice to make a significant improvement in the ugly guy's success with women. And I don't think they can because unless you have walked a mile in someone else's shoes you don't know what they are facing and feeling.
I see your point - but I have a feeling that it depends more on the person rather than their level of attractiveness. There might be some good looking guys out there that really can give good advice because they truly do understand the male/female dynamics - and there are some good looking guys that solely rely on their looks and are not aware of it.
I see your point - but I have a feeling that it depends more on the person rather than their level of attractiveness. There might be some good looking guys out there that really can give good advice because they truly do understand the male/female dynamics - and there are some good looking guys that solely rely on their looks and are not aware of it.
But the male/female dynamics are vastly different for attractive men vs. ugly men.
sure-- make an investment in life, begin to appreciate beauty not women beauty start small plants and small animals. learn to draw them or paint them or something.
take care of yourself. stop slam dunking junk food to put off depression.
get rid of your garbage get comfortable and centered,
take a dance class
and they will line up around the block to be with you.
But the male/female dynamics are vastly different for attractive men vs. ugly men.
Perhaps in terms of hitting on women or picking women up in a bar - but I don't think that the dynamics are that different when it comes to making connections or having relationships. I mean - if all you are looking for are one night stands - then probably there is a big difference. But if you are looking for a relationship - I'm not so sure that attractive people are so crazily different than unattractive people.
Perhaps in terms of hitting on women or picking women up in a bar - but I don't think that the dynamics are that different when it comes to making connections or having relationships. I mean - if all you are looking for are one night stands - then probably there is a big difference. But if you are looking for a relationship - I'm not so sure that attractive people are so crazily different than unattractive people.
Dunno. I've never been involved in hitting on women, and I've never been in a bar. It just seems from daily life outside the romantic/sexual arena that life for the attractive is very much different than it is for the ugly. And what I've seen in dating only shows I'm right. People who claim not to care about looks always seem to care when it comes down to it.
have ur own life and dont be afraid to be different. Seems now a days neither gender has much to offer the other except weekends filled with getting drunk somewhere. Doesnt really interest me. This this is where doing things that u like to do or interest u is important. maybe you meet someone with similar interests.
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