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Is it possible to be touch in normally sexual area in nonsexual way?
I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's very loving, he would touch me frequently such as walk up to me from behind and hug me, run his fingers through my hair, snuggle frequently, and always hold me when sleeping. I do love and appreciate it.
But... He also would do thing like pats my butt, rubs my breast whenever he rubs my tummy, rub from my crotch to tummy and back down, or place his hand across my crotch when wrapping his arm around me. This even happen after we have sex and first few times I try to brush it off because I doesn't feel like having sex at the moment, he would just ignore first time and says he just want to touch and appreciate me (he do always stop if I told him I really don't want to be touch here for second time though)
I'm gradually getting used to this but it is still somewhat strange to me.
If we had sex every time my husband touched me we would never leave the house. Come to think of it, we would also be arrested for lewd behavior.
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Is it possible to be touch in normally sexual area in nonsexual way?
I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's very loving, he would touch me frequently such as walk up to me from behind and hug me, run his fingers through my hair, snuggle frequently, and always hold me when sleeping. I do love and appreciate it.
But... He also would do thing like pats my butt, rubs my breast whenever he rubs my tummy, rub from my crotch to tummy and back down, or place his hand across my crotch when wrapping his arm around me. This even happen after we have sex and first few times I try to brush it off because I doesn't feel like having sex at the moment, he would just ignore first time and says he just want to touch and appreciate me (he do always stop if I told him I really don't want to be touch here for second time though)
I'm gradually getting used to this but it is still somewhat strange to me.
Any touch can be made as sexual as you make it. A doctor can touch any of the most private parts, sex being the very last thing in mind. Makeup artists, same story. Beside professionals for whom touching private parts is a part of the job description, between us laymen it's all up for grabs so to speak, not touches alone. Touches of all kinds, words, looks, and just very presence of the special one - it's all sexual to a degree. Stop poisoning your mind with this black-and-white nonsense, give it more granularity, stay on the right side of the law and enjoy. Flow smoothly from presence to words to touches to lovemaking and back.
when a guy makes it to the promise land,,,he does think he has an all day pass...
he admires you,,and is trying to express it-....
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