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He'll leave as soon as someone hotter shows any type of interest in him, but for now he'll suck it up and do her because he has nothing better going on.
This is not always true, I have never had hot women interested in me in the 12 or so years I have been dating/married/etc, I have settled for women who just barely get me hard because those are the women who are interested in me. If a hot woman "came along" I would be incredibly suspicious and would never compromise a women who I was already having regular sex with and we already knew how to get each other off for a woman who could dump me for another guy over night.
When your with a hot woman your very easily replaceable and that's a bad mental place to be, it would make it hard to concentrate at work or function in other aspects of life because you would always have to make sure you were pandering to your girl friend to the nth degree, if she even got just a little bit unhappy she could very easily leave, leaving you to have to find another woman with a lot of difficulty.
Maybe JJ is going after hot guys who are just looking at her as a fill in for a few weeks till they get a woman who is more in their league. Not all guys are waiting for someone else to come along, especially if they have always struggled with women and they are now getting regular sex the way they like it.
This is not always true, I have never had hot women interested in me in the 12 or so years I have been dating/married/etc, I have settled for women who just barely get me hard because those are the women who are interested in me. If a hot woman "came along" I would be incredibly suspicious and would never compromise a women who I was already having regular sex with and we already knew how to get each other off for a woman who could dump me for another guy over night.
When your with a hot woman your very easily replaceable and that's a bad mental place to be, it would make it hard to concentrate at work or function in other aspects of life because you would always have to make sure you were pandering to your girl friend to the nth degree, if she even got just a little bit unhappy she could very easily leave, leaving you to have to find another woman with a lot of difficulty.
Maybe JJ is going after hot guys who are just looking at her as a fill in for a few weeks till they get a woman who is more in their league. Not all guys are waiting for someone else to come along, especially if they have always struggled with women and they are now getting regular sex the way they like it.
You're only interested in sex though... so your opinion doesn't mean much to those who want to be in a happy, healthy relationship.
And no, I don't go after hot guys...in fact, I've never dated a 'hot guy'.
You're only interested in sex though... so your opinion doesn't mean much to those who want to be in a happy, healthy relationship.
And no, I don't go after hot guys...in fact, I've never dated a 'hot guy'.
That is not true, I just dont want to wait forever for it or play games, that does not mean that I dont like doing other things with my mate and that I need to form thoes memories to form a bond, like a nice long fall drive, or just goofing off, etc.
That is not true, I just dont want to wait forever for it or play games, that does not mean that I dont like doing other things with my mate and that I need to form thoes memories to form a bond, like a nice long fall drive, or just goofing off, etc.
Yes, but those things come faaaaar after sex in importance judging by your posts. Without sex, you wouldn't be interested in doing any of those things with a partner. To me, it sounds like all the things you list are unfortunate side effects that you deal with to get regular sex.
Yes, but those things come faaaaar after sex in importance judging by your posts. Without sex, you wouldn't be interested in doing any of those things with a partner. To me, it sounds like all the things you list are unfortunate side effects that you deal with to get regular sex.
IF the sex is not there then it would be a friendship and I would still be looking for a romantic interest.
Yes, but those things come faaaaar after sex in importance judging by your posts. Without sex, you wouldn't be interested in doing any of those things with a partner. To me, it sounds like all the things you list are unfortunate side effects that you deal with to get regular sex.
Only the most thirsty, pathetic men on the planet would say yes to doing those things with a partner who isn't having sex with him. "Side effects" to having sex with a woman have existed since the beginning of time (it's called commitment), but now that sex is doled out for free regularly women can't a find a man willing to commit aka deal with the side effects which is a necessary part of a relationship for both sexes. If you think you will find a man who will not view his desire to have sex with you as a primary motivator towards committing to you, you are mistaken.
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