I fell for a man who is 17 years older.... (date, married, woman)
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Sighhh trying to forget about him because I know I cannot have him. But it's so darn hard when he's the kind of man that I want. Kind, gentle, and so thoughtful. Sighhh
What can I do to forget him? Please don't suggest working out or going out...I have done that so many times over the last couple of weeks ...he's so right yet so wrong.
Unless you're still a teenager, or he's married, I don't see why you wouldn't date him.
Ahh forgot to mention, he's my boss. I tried to keep love out of the office, so have not flirted or anything, did not ask him for any personal info. Nothing. Nada. But I do ache for him...sighhhh life is a ......growl!
Ahh forgot to mention, he's my boss. I tried to keep love out of the office, so have not flirted or anything, did not ask him for any personal info. Nothing. Nada. But I do ache for him...sighhhh life is a ......growl!
If you mean you can't have him because he is married, then c'est la vie. But, if he is single there actually is no problem. Love should not be shackled by such things. In fact, the slightly added challenge is likely to bring you even closer - sacrifie and understanding are huge components of real love.
Look at Michal Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones, like 25 years difference I think and one of the strongest marriages.
LoL If he's , I am not interested. Not looking for a sugar daddy but someone to connect with!
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Originally Posted by bob the brave
If you mean you can't have him because he is married, then c'est la vie. But, if he is single there actually is no problem. Love should not be shackled by such things. In fact, the slightly added challenge is likely to bring you even closer - sacrifie and understanding are huge components of real love.
Look at Michal Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones, like 25 years difference I think and one of the strongest marriages.
Sigh, I like your argument and example, that actually makes me very happy. But it's the start of my career. I mean if I flirt and he doesn't like me, then I'll be embarrassed. Not to mention, my office has a lot of drama already without my help and I would be hurting his job too. So that's ....I am thinking of leaving this place in 2 years. Perhaps I will tell him then
LoL If he's , I am not interested. Not looking for a sugar daddy but someone to connect with!
Sigh, I like your argument and example, that actually makes me very happy. But it's the start of my career. I mean if I flirt and he doesn't like me, then I'll be embarrassed. Not to mention, my office has a lot of drama already without my help and I would be hurting his job too. So that's ....I am thinking of leaving this place in 2 years. Perhaps I will tell him then
Theres your solution, and by that time you will determine if its just infatuation
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I tried to keep love out of the office, so have not flirted or anything, did not ask him for any personal info. Nothing. Nada. But I do ache for him...sighhhh life is a ......growl!
I don't leave any trace 
But it's the start of my career. I mean if I flirt and he doesn't like me, then I'll be embarrassed. Not to mention, my office has a lot of drama already without my help and I would be hurting his job too. So that's ....I am thinking of leaving this place in 2 years. Perhaps I will tell him then 
