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Old 08-14-2013, 11:34 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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This girl blocked my number 3 weeks ago. She also blocked me on facebook. My one friend thinks that she needed time to herself for awhile. My friend also thinks that sooner or later she will contact me again like nothing happened because she will want me back.

Your friend is daft.

A few of my friends feel that in superficial LA no other guys will give her a chance.

Oh wow, because she's "fat" and she'll come back to you because there's nobody else?

But the truth is if she does contact me again in several months I may or may not want her back because she blocked me number and blocked me on facebook. I"m hoping that if I loose wieght and maybe get a job that I will find a girl who will treat me better. I"m willing to give her another chance maybe.

She's not coming back. Use your energies to become independent instead of obsessing over a woman.

One of her best friends is her dog. Her dog sleeps in the same bed as her.

So what?

At age 26 she is a momas girl and daddys girl.

This from a 32 year old who lives at home, doesn't have a job, lives on a trust fund and can't shake himself to get off his duff and make something of his life? It would be hysterically funny if it weren't so pathetically sad.

On weekends she hangs out with her parents often and not with friends.
And your idea of hanging out any time is going to the mall and drinking lattés ...

 
Old 08-15-2013, 06:54 AM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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Stop obsessing over this woman. It's clear from your posts that you don't think very highly of her. And you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone you despise, especially this early in your acquaintance with her.

Maybe it's because you have poor self esteem, but don't chase a woman that you find so many faults with.

What about being upfront about your Aspergers and finding a woman that also has it? Are there any Aspergers support groups in your area?

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Old 08-15-2013, 07:56 AM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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Thread closed for review.

ETA: OP, you have received plenty of wise counsel on this thread. It is now time for you to move on, and for us to move on from this thread, so it will remain closed.


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