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Old 08-21-2018, 02:39 AM
 
Location: Sydney, Australia
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The first time he did it, he came back to me nearly a year later and I was very easy on him, mainly because I was so in love with him and I wanted to give him a chance as humans make foul mistakes anyway.

Now, 3 years later, he cheats on me again. To return or not to return?

I am torn & brokenhearted for sure, but this is just getting hilarious.
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Old 08-21-2018, 03:28 AM
 
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Does it matter what the odds are? Why would you ever entertain the idea of taking him back when he's shown you, twice, he's not worthy? And I'm not sure where the hilarity is in this...
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Old 08-21-2018, 03:36 AM
 
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If you can’t see a thing about his character by now. You two deserve each other. Hope you don’t ruin some innocent child’s life too. This guy isn’t special. Move on.
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Old 08-21-2018, 03:50 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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You want him no matter what, and he knows that.
Don't expect that he will respect you. Expect more cheating and perhaps worse. And don't expect that anything will change. This relationship has no future. Now its up to you - take it or leave it.
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Old 08-21-2018, 05:44 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Hilarious really isn’t the word I would have chosen.
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Old 08-21-2018, 05:47 AM
 
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What are you torn about. Guy doesn’t have respect for you. Walk away
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Old 08-21-2018, 05:49 AM
 
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If you think it's so hilarious then carry on as you were. Just make sure to always use birth control with him because it would be extremely unfair to bring an innocent child into such a toxic and unhealthy environment.
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Old 08-21-2018, 05:54 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Hope he doesn’t come back?

Really. Your mind has “imprinted” on him as what you want. It’s an illusion. Make yourself more open and available to finding a better partner. Use the logical side of your mind.

Dress better, smell good, be friendly and approachable to the right kinds of men. Put yourself out there a little. There are tons of lonely guys out there looking for the right kind of woman.

You deserve someone who doesn’t cheat.
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Old 08-21-2018, 06:39 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Theres an old saying: "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.”
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Old 08-21-2018, 08:19 AM
 
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You should not care one way or the other if he comes back, he should be blocked from your phone email etc and you should move on. If you are secretly hoping he will come back that is a sad state of affairs. If he comes back it doesn't mean he respects you or loves you or won't cheat again, it just means he is lonely and knows he can do whatever he wants and you will put up with it. Unless you have an agreement to be in an open relationship, none of this is ok.
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