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Old 08-30-2013, 09:14 PM
 
Location: Bay Area
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just because you're in bed doesn't mean you have to sleep together
you're watching a movie, being a gentleman gets you further in the long run

 
Old 08-30-2013, 09:16 PM
 
Location: In bucolic TN
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There is nothing wrong with being stalked in bed by someone you care about. Wait for her. When you get to know her, it will become mutual, without a word. In the meantime, just enjoy each others company. All the time above the sheets is a prelude to what you do under the sheets, or on the table, in the shower, or upon the settee.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 09:16 PM
 
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Should've went for it
 
Old 08-30-2013, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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just because you're in bed doesn't mean you have to sleep together
you're watching a movie, being a gentleman gets you further in the long run
I disagree..It gets you in the friend zone in the long run.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 09:38 PM
 
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Maybe, you haven't realized that you're gay yet..
 
Old 08-30-2013, 09:44 PM
 
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just because you're in bed doesn't mean you have to sleep together
you're watching a movie, being a gentleman gets you further in the long run
1965 called, it wants your world view back.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 09:53 PM
 
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If I were.her, I wouldn't be upset that you didn't make a move. Sometimes it's nice to just enjoy time together like that, relaxed.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 11:52 PM
 
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After ice skating we went back to her apartment and decided to watch some TV while laying her bed. I decided to respectful and not try for anything because it was only our 2nd date. Now I feel terrible like I should of at least pursued something. I wanted to be respectful and everything, but I'm starting to realize that my thoughts are BS sometimes. Sometimes you just have to be a man.

Is it weird that I had her in bed and didn't try to do anything?

we're in our early 20's & i did kiss her when i left.
Seems she was waiting for u if she invited you to her bed. But your beta personality took over and you froze. Should initiate some light touching to see where it goes. Be respectful though but don't be beta. You may not get another chance as she may think you weren't interested in her.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 11:58 PM
 
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You just lost manhood points in her eyes. Don't kid yourself... women will talk about how they appreciate when a man acts like a gentleman, but they're really talking about you opening doors for them, sending them flowers, etc. If she invites you into bed, you need to put the moves on her or she'll think you're a passive wimp. Or that she's unattractive. You need to step up to the plate and take a couple of swings. You didn't even step out of the dugout.
 
Old 08-31-2013, 12:01 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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You just lost manhood points in her eyes. Don't kid yourself... women will talk about how they appreciate when a man acts like a gentleman, but they're really talking about you opening doors for them, sending them flowers, etc. If she invites you into bed, you need to put the moves on her or she'll think you're a passive wimp. Or that she's unattractive. You need to step up to the plate and take a couple of swings. You didn't even step out of the dugout.
You are a complete fool... and women know it too....
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