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lol This is the most pathetic thing ever. I'm reminiscing about how she used to get off work late and then text me to go on a midnight walk around campus. We'd talk about politics, religion, life in general. I sort of pretended she was my girlfriend and I'm sure that's what people thought when they saw us walking down the sidewalk. Funny how I didn't realize I was in the friend zone even though she had me doing ridiculous favors like staying up all night to do her homework, transporting drugs to her friends, lending her my laptop charger for days, etc. She has been going out with one of my college buddies for 3 yrs (she was just taking a break when she hung out with me that summer).
Oh, yea .... Another story. I kinda liked this one hot sorority girl. I took her on a trip to Canada (cost me $500) for a formal dance, but I was a drunken mess the entire time and she ended up just doing her homework and talking to other people. I took her as a date to another event and it was the same thing all over --- I got drunk and she was nice enough to tag along even after the event when I was getting blacked-out drunk in the movie room at my house. I still kinda think about her.
That's the extent of my college relationship life. How pathetic is all that?
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lol This is the most pathetic thing ever. I'm reminiscing about how she used to get off work late and then text me to go on a midnight walk around campus. We'd talk about politics, religion, life in general. I sort of pretended she was my girlfriend and I'm sure that's what people thought when they saw us walking down the sidewalk. Funny how I didn't realize I was in the friend zone even though she had me doing ridiculous favors like staying up all night to do her homework, transporting drugs to her friends, lending her my laptop charger for days, etc. She has been going out with one of my college buddies for 3 yrs (she was just taking a break when she hung out with me that summer).
How pathetic is all that?
She didn't "have" you do anything. You willingly did stuff. If anyone put you in a friendzone, it was you.
She didn't "have" you do anything. You willingly did stuff. If anyone put you in a friendzone, it was you.
Lol. Seriously? A lot of younger women do this. They find a guy that wants them and they use him. Why oh why do you act like this guy wasn't getting used?
Lol. Seriously? A lot of younger women do this. They find a guy that wants them and they use him. Why oh why do you act like this guy wasn't getting used?
Most times you can't be taken advantage of without your consent. It sounds like he didn't ever tell her, "no, I'm busy." He followed her around like a puppy dog and did whatever she wanted. She may have used him, but he let her use him.
Lol. Seriously? A lot of younger women do this. They find a guy that wants them and they use him. Why oh why do you act like this guy wasn't getting used?
Why, oh why do you not realize that he volunteered to be used? At any point, he could have said no. The fact that he didn't is not her fault.
Most times you can't be taken advantage of without your consent. It sounds like he didn't ever tell her, "no, I'm busy." He followed her around like a puppy dog and did whatever she wanted. She may have used him, but he let her use him.
Yeah. Happens to a lot of guys. They meet a girl and really like them and genuinely want to please her. She wants nothing to do with him sexually, but is fine with the ego boosting attention and is fine with using him. Bet she never said, "hey, just so you know, this isn't going anywhere beyond friendship with us."
Why, oh why do you not realize that he volunteered to be used? At any point, he could have said no. The fact that he didn't is not her fault.
Haha. You guys are really defending a girl using a guy that she knew wanted him. Some guys are just weak like that and you blame him. Not the narcissistic chick? Awesome.
lol This is the most pathetic thing ever. I'm reminiscing about how she used to get off work late and then text me to go on a midnight walk around campus. We'd talk about politics, religion, life in general. I sort of pretended she was my girlfriend and I'm sure that's what people thought when they saw us walking down the sidewalk. Funny how I didn't realize I was in the friend zone even though she had me doing ridiculous favors like staying up all night to do her homework, transporting drugs to her friends, lending her my laptop charger for days, etc. She has been going out with one of my college buddies for 3 yrs (she was just taking a break when she hung out with me that summer).
No doubt this guy brought a lot of it on himself, but I find it concerning that all the posters here see nothing wrong with the girl leading him around and making him do her errands. That's being a ****ty person.
Haha. You guys are really defending a girl using a guy that she knew wanted him. Some guys are just weak like that and you blame him. Not the narcissistic chick? Awesome.
If I've learned anything from this forum, it's that men and women are often not on the same page. Young men will generally not associate with women they don't want to sleep with, but that's not necessarily true for women with men. They don't think like a horny teenage boy. I was a woman in college not too long ago, and it's not out of the realm of possibility that she thought he was a sweet guy and a good friend and didn't have any idea that he wanted her or was deliberately and maliciously toying with him.
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